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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 7:47 AM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
FwL -- how long are you going to keep putting up with his stupid bullshit????
STOP being a *right*-fighter and just KNOW that you ARE right.
He's now lost all trust in YOU because you went through his phone. And you're *buying* that? Oh, for ffs. Stop.It.Already. You KNOW that the whole *oh, now I don't trust you BS* is a total smoke-bomb.
You need help knowing what to say the next time he brings *what* up? No matter what this loser douchebag *brings up* to you....your response to him is *Fuck.Off*.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 11:46 AM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
Read your own tag line, honey:
May God fix this marriage and the man I married, if you can't just show me the road I should be on.
You've just been shown the road you should be on. You are living with an actively cheating, remorseless man. What would you advise your sister/BFF if she came to you with this information?
What should you say to him the next time he brings it up? Nothing; because there should not be a next time. I'm speaking from experience; I let the X gaslight and bully me into staying in a situation where I felt I had to monitor and surveil his every action; I should have left after the second time I caught him. Hindsight is 20/20, and I'm trying to give you the benefit of my improved vision.
Stop second guessing yourself and start putting your ducks in a row.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
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