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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:29 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Fuck. That. Guy.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 1:43 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
What a butthole
Text him that he should have left some room deodorizer so you could get rid of the disgusting cheater-stench still lingering from him. 
But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17
k8la ( member #38408) posted at 2:38 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Take pictures, send with documents your attorney needs, and let your attorney leverage the mental cruelty angle as well.
Iamhappytoday ( member #39051) posted at 5:06 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
GIRL!!!!! Let me tell you. My ex was the same half-assed slob as yours, taking no responsibility for his carelessness and acting like I was the shittiest wife ever for not having the most impeccable of homes when he left a trail of destruction behind him. He picked the girls up for their last visit and you could practically only see the headrests of his truck seats (I secretly snickered!!) from all the crap just piled in there.
He sees me slowly getting this place (re)organized and it eats his sorry ass up. He would leave on deployment and within two days upon return destroy all sense of order.
I used to not believe it, but maybe I should reconsider what others on here have said:
He hasn't changed anything but the players;
You will be so much better when you just don't care about that asshole.
I get so excited when I think of the bomb that is going to be dropped on OW, who just got back from deployment. She's gonna realize life ain't that fantasy! and he's gonna wear himself out trying to change that perception. That's two tired ass losers. Let'em at it. You make girls nights happen, look at the awesome men who post here, take a nice long bath and read a book, and know you are worthy, better, valuable, and are doing the best thing, which is healing work.
[This message edited by Iamhappytoday at 11:08 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)]
BW 39
WH 34
2DD's 15 months at start
Together 10 years, M 9
OW 22 CW, 2kids by 2 men & youngest less than 1 when affair started.
Dday 1 8/16/12 "just texting"
TT, gaslighting, denial; was always PA; he left me for her. Divorced 8/11/15
NewMom0220 (original poster member #39036) posted at 10:40 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Thanks everyone! I just keep saying Sandra Bullock, Sandra Bullock, Sandra Bullock. Hopefully I've learned my lesson about keeping it classy as I've just reacted, reacted, and reacted to all of his bullshit mind games in the past.
Just glad I don't have to see his face everyday. And really, I think that's what is bothering him the most.
Me: BS 37
Him: WS 37
20 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.
NewMom0220 (original poster member #39036) posted at 10:40 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Thanks everyone! I just keep saying Sandra Bullock, Sandra Bullock, Sandra Bullock. Hopefully I've learned my lesson about keeping it classy as I've just reacted, reacted, and reacted to all of his bullshit mind games in the past.
No contact is the best. Just glad I don't have to see his face everyday. And really, I think that's what is bothering him the most.
[This message edited by NewMom0220 at 4:41 PM, October 10th (Thursday)]
Me: BS 37
Him: WS 37
20 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.
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