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Betrayeddaddio ( member #30198) posted at 3:28 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
I do. :( I guess I mostly feel like I need to lose weight to feel comfortable in my own skin. Before infidelity I was a normal weight. Immediately after infidelity I lost a ton. But then as time went on and deep depression sunk in, I gain A LOT of weight. I'm not obese, but I am heavier than I've ever been before and I am not comfortable this way.
and......
I actually am waiting until I hit a certain number before I start dating.
I try to lose weight, but dammit, I love to eat, and I don't love working out
I am slightly out of shape, and I derive a great deal of my self confidence from my fitness level. So before I consider dating I want to get in much better shape for ME, as well as making myself more attractive to others.
Working on improving yourself is never a bad thing....
BH-42 WW-40 DD-5 DD-9 DD-11
D-Day 09/27/2010 Wayward wife had a 10 month A with married DB co-worker Separated Oct. 2013
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