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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 6:21 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 6:29 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK)))
Fuck that fucking fucker.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 6:36 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((((NIK)))))
Fuck that noise.
Sending you strength.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 7:34 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Wow! Just....WOW!! And... confirmation (as if you needed it) that he is all about him and how much better you are without that.
(((NIK and family))) Take care of you and the people that matter.
tbh
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 7:43 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
FTG! Must be something in the air at the moment all NPD Douchebags are running rampant.
Please take care of yourself NIK. Hugs sent to you honey.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Afraid2LoveAgain ( member #11185) posted at 10:48 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((((NIK)))))
I'm so sorry about you Mom.
And hope your Daughter is doing better.
BW -- 58
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary
courageous ( member #34477) posted at 11:07 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
((Nik)). What a jerk! I'm sorry you are having to go thru all of this. I'm sorry about your mom.
Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:52 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK))) Not only will I hold your earrings, I'll lend you my baseball bat. After I get in a few swings of my own.
Hold mine too please and another bat would be handy.
Zero Integrity. Zero Empathy. Just Zero.
Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.
((NIK)) As I once read from you during a particular difficult time:
"They know which buttons to press because they installed the fuckers!!"
Fuck.That.Guy. Fuck him to hell. He's on my shit list - the sad clown is now something like my 7th most loathed unremorseful WS. Not.Happy.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 12:14 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 2:39 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Wow......just wow.............
{{{{hugs for you and your Mom and daughter}}}}}}
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 3:14 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK)))
Take care of you and be with your mom for as long as you are given.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 3:26 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK)))
"They know which buttons to press because they installed the fuckers!!"
so true
that was so a planned attack on his part. what a fu$ker
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 3:30 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK))))
I am sorry. Sending you strength.
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 4:41 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Dear Nik,
You are awesome. He sucks. I wish his voice would diminish to the annoying drone of an insect and that he could be SQUASHED as easily.
I am so sorry.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 5:24 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Their audacity knows no bounds. I'm sorry you're still having to deal with his selfishness and insensitivity.
(((NIK)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 6:04 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK)))) F.T.G. I hope the vent got that idiot out of your head so you can focus on what matters. Thinking about you lady.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 6:12 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Ah, jeez. What a fucking moron. I'm sorry that you have to deal with such stupidity.
((((Nik))))
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:57 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Failure is success if we learn from it.
ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 7:53 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Fuck that fucking guy!!!!!!!!!!!
Dick!
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 8:32 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Hugs and strength to you NIK during this difficult time.
And FTG 
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
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