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WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 11:58 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013
Thanks everyone! It went fine, as far as those things go. He was surprised and hurt and I was worried about him. He has found a place to stay though and will be moving out. AAAAAND the married GF is still coming to visit this weekend, so he is all good! I'm fine, too and just trying to decide if I should tell the OBS.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 4:34 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
Thank you for the update! I'm so glad to hear that you are feeling fine and that he is moving out! I've read that the OBS needs to be told.
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
Please tell the OBS. I wish that someone had told me sooner.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:55 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
How are you feeling with a little time and distances?
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 5:01 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
I've heard that, too. I will be seeing my IC today and I'll talk about it. I am not sure if new girl is coming now, or not. It is selfish of me, but I know if I just leave it alone things with STBX will be easier.
Our house is pretty large, so he is in the guest room and we'll talk timelines when I get back in town on Sunday. I anticipate him moving out by the end of January. We're being civil and crying a lot.
[This message edited by WeepingBuddhist at 11:02 AM, December 5th (Thursday)]
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 5:03 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
Hexed, I still feel totally relieved. I'm more sad than I would have imagined, though. I'm optimistic and my friends are the most fabulous people on the planet.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 7:51 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
(((WB)))
Yes, tell the other BS.
And ... everything is as it should be. 
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
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