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I wrote a reply to your post steadfast but it got lost somehow. She does seem all over the place! Wow!

OW did the completely ignoring the part about NO CONTACT too. He would always make a comment about how clueless she was. At times I did wonder if it wasn't actually me who was clueless...

She posted it to flickr, saying, "this is my new house, i can't wait to move in!"

Wow.. Amazing what psyco's will do.

Wow! The spelling mistakes (my favorite is excape goat) and the epiphany that you can boil more than one egg at a time, had me laughing out loud, so thanks for making me smile today!

Maybe that should be a new thread, Crazy letters from the AP.

Hugs to both of you, CL131716 and Steadfast1973. It is hard to get any contact from the AP and not be impacted by it, so I hope you are able to continue NC and move forward.

The letter from my FWH's ow was from 4 years ago. Thankfully she was never the bunny boiler we thought she was going to be. I am all for posting crazy letters.

Wow!

*His ex-wife cheated on him (EA)

*He cheated on his ex-wife as well [Was this a PA or EA?]

*He has always accused me of cheating.

*He snoops more than I do! I do admit I got a kick out of him searching for a "secret phone" one night.

*he checks the history on the computer and phone every day and even reads my journal.

His pattern of behavior is disheartening.

It was an PA everything but sex.

What a self delusional crazy person. Print that shit out and have it framed.

WTH is an "excape goat"? OMG!

[This message edited by Chicky at 10:13 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)]

the woman was obviously extremely upset. probably using a spell checker wasn't a priority.

Well, she obviously slept through spelling class. Don't you love rants that include horribly misspelled words -- excape goat and erigant, really. What the fuck is 'erigant'? (psst. I know she *meant* arrogant.....) But I googled it. It is not even in the English dictionary, although it is on Wiki as a Latin-based word that means to raise, build or erect; or arouse, excite, stimulate.

And this part.....

YES I SAID STUFF BUT THAT WAS BULLSHIT NOTHING ELSE

....proves that she wss embarrassed as hell and trying to *save face*. Methinks the female doth protest a bit too much.

@HB -- OW was sent a NC letter, and the first line of her response is this....

Not sure if/what kind of response you were expecting to this email,

O.M.G.

Ummmmmmm....how about NO response since it was a do NOT contact me again???

Dumb WH's, bringing *crazy* into everyone's lives.......

Is she the one who planted the seeds in your H's mind that you might be cheating

This^^^^^^ I know ow fed my ws shit about me. We were S for a short time after my first son was born. He started saying he was our only kid that didn't look like him. He just looks more like my dad. This came out of the blue one day and I was floored. He insinuated we S because of me...Nooo it was because he was a cokehead alchoholic. I cane back after he went to rehab. He brought it up one more time and I told him to get the fuck out...he apologized and said he didn't know why he said it. I know ow was trying to cause problems. So they will definitely try something like planting a cheating seed.

Crap...Reading the original post... It almost sounds like the crazy OW I had to deal with.

I was amused with the "are you mad at not going to send me anymore?" Lord. It's hilarious, now. But for 3 months she had my H snowed. It would have never worked out, though... She's one of those urban foragers... She gets her groceries from restaurant/grocery dumpsters. He hates it if I keep the grocery bags for small garbage bags. And won't even buy "managers specials" on the expiration date. These were the things they didn't even consider when planning my divorce. funny, for "soulmates" they sure didn't know each other, very well...