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Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 10:28 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013
My suggestion:
Teslet's father is welcome to work out drop-off and pick-up arrangements with me. We will be adhering to the guidelines unless both of his parents mutually agree.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 11:18 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013
Warning: It sounds like they are on the same wavelink as my XWH and OW... Since I wouldn't let OW pick up my children, now I am receiving texts that I need to grow up and get over this for the benefit of the children, that what happened - happened a long time ago. 
( I wish we had an emicon of a head spinning around)....
Good, logical, answer on your part, btw....
And from now on,,, do not answer her directly, I believe she is trying to get you to engage with her only so that you are not talking to xwh --- OW get paranoid about stuff like that!!! 
[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 5:22 AM, December 19th (Thursday)]
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 5:35 PM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013
I'm dying to know what the response from Tesla's ex-shat was!!
Two bigger fucking idiots I don't think I've ever seen.
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 10:46 PM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013
He's in a passive agressive mode aparently because I got this this morning:
What time does Teslet get out of school tomorrow?
Me
Normal time
Him
What time you want me to pick him up
Me
Please review the parenting time guidelines. I will always assume those times indicated. If you are unable to personally pick Teslet up, we can figure out an alternate time, as I would like the parenting time if you are unable to excercise it.
While he is with you this week, I will call to speak with Teslet every other evening at X time, unless you indicate a different time.
As a reminder, I plan to excercise my parenting time with Teslet on Christmas day. I will pick him up at X from your place.
I will pick him up for my half of the Christmas break on the 28th at X. I sent our travel itinerary on the 2nd.
About 10 minutes after I sent that, I got this from stripper whore...
sorry i thought it would be ok to just ask u
Hmmmm.....well not sure what is really going on over there and I really don't care.
But, because she does watch my child and she's not working with a lot upstairs, I did send this back to her...
Don't worry about it. It's best in these matters that the parents communicate so there are no misunderstandings.
I know, I probably shouldn't have...but there is a part of me that feels bad for her. Ex-shat is dumping all this shit on her and she's doing whatever the fuck he wants because that is how sadly and desperately, and pathetically in love she is with him. She has zero options in life and I have to believe that she's doing the best with what she's got. That is the co-dependent in me...sigh.
Anywho, no response from ex-shat...probably busy trying to make sense of the guidelines. 
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 10:51 PM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013
pff...probably trying to find the guidelines, more like.
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 11:08 PM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013
Hey! I just realized that we were married on this date! 
Wow! If I didn't have to text him, I *might* have forgotten!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 2:28 AM on Friday, December 20th, 2013
Unbelievable, what is it with these WS? They can't even keep a simple schedule for their own children? And this seems to be the case with all WS, male or female. We have seen many of our male members struggle with the same stuff. Ugh! Tesla you have learned to maneuver through this so beautifully. 
[This message edited by IrishLass518 at 11:53 PM, December 19th (Thursday)]
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:10 AM on Friday, December 20th, 2013
I have also previously made things crystal clear to the sad clown;
We only need to communicate when requesting a change to the parenting plan. I will not enter into any further discussion on this matter. Please stop the unsolicited and unnecessary contact.
It helped curb my urge to rescue him via proxy through my girls. It smashed the last button he had left to push.
F.....T.....G.....
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
sudra ( member #30143) posted at 11:43 AM on Friday, December 20th, 2013
Just checked the weather for you here in Indiana. High of 52 today with rain. You'd better get the bread and milk before they're all out at the store. We're sure to be snowed in with that forecast!
Glad you didn't flinch at the date. Anniversaries can be hard - sounds you're just happy you're not "celebrating" anymore of them with him!
Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R
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