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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:26 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
But at the same time I count my blessings that my kids are safe, I am safe, we have a roof over our heads, I have a great job now, and we will be moving into transitional housing here soon and can really save money to get on our feet within the next year :) Happy Holidays everyone
This is so very encouraging, teeghan. You and your kids have been on my mind. Sending you all kinds of mojo for a safe, relaxed, and happy holiday. And a kick-ass 2014, to boot. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:28 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
(((Teegan)))
JJ is right, you have 40,000 behind you, concerned about you, and sending good mojo toward you.
I am divorced from a pathological disorder too. And, one thing I learned in Alanon is:
One day at a time and don't buy trouble.
Enjoy today, as it is all you have. I know that is easier said then done. But those alanon sayings helped me when I would spin off into worry or obsessive thoughts. I hope they help you too.
I am sorry he is such a jerkwad to you. Merry Christmas!!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
seriouslylostit ( member #23987) posted at 5:36 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Tee,
Know I'm rooting for you and I know very well what you're going through ... I used to be a victim advocate with Fulton County.
teeghan (original poster member #40859) posted at 10:12 PM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
Thank you all - and I hope you all had a merry Christmas.
The kids and I at least got through Christmas without ANY harrassement but boy did I get it today. I got the ugliest letter from his attorney emailed to me and I am just wondering when it will stop. When will they leave me alone. When will they just let me live my life.
The letter stated they would get an emergency hearing asap if I did not let him see his kids. HELLO!!!!! He has to go through the courts and they have been closed for Christmas dumbass.... I am not the one to set it up and pay the fees.
UGH My DA office is not happy. neither am I but I am going home to my kids and giving them a big big hug!!!!!!
painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 10:17 PM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
They want you to skip the court and just let him see them. That is really not acceptable for an attorney to do. I would ask the DA or another attorney if that type of harassment is allowed by attorneys. If not, report him. Let the crooked lawyer see that you will not lie down and cave to demands, even from an attorney.
I would ask for that emergency hearing - and then use it to try to get him locked up again.
DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband
teeghan (original poster member #40859) posted at 2:44 AM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
Thay is exactly what the da office is doing They are so.pissed too. They said this attorney could get sanctions if he doesnt watch it.
Ome great piece of news. It motivated me to start a site like thos for support for domestic violence and it will be up soon. I excited. I am.NOT letting him win.
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