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Manningup26 ( member #32645) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
J-Razz,
What did you mean by "gain his attention", manningup26
Like I stated earlier - she needs to do something to show she's serious. If I had a 'side piece' and there's no consequences - then I would just continue my merry way! What a deal!!
[This message edited by Manningup26 at 1:38 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)]
Thankfully God is married to the backslider!!
Married over 20 years
Nibbled my way into an affair
Climbing out the ditch into a healthier relationship
whereismylove (original poster member #41794) posted at 4:28 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014
Thanks all! don't know what I would do with out this website. I will move over to just found out forum for sure now.
DDay: Nov.6th, Dec 24, Dec.27(2013) Jan 10th(2014)text contact after she moved (feb- july 2014.) Another text episode 1/9/15
Me : BS, 37. awesome doting wife&mom. (Also a chump for staying )
Him: WS, 43. EU
OW: 1/2 his age,engaged,& his employee
Kitty70 ( member #41939) posted at 1:37 AM on Friday, January 10th, 2014
I don't really have advice but just support to say I know what you're going through. Maybe what Ive experienced will help. Your story sounds a bit similar to mine. My WBF, looking back now, cheated on me in some form or another over the years. I would find stuff, confront him, and either he would never admit to anything by staying silent or would make up some crazy lie. And he is quite an accomplished liar. He constantly tells me, to this day, that I am the love of his life and that he is not going anywhere. I guess it's the want cake and eat it too syndrome. I want to believe what he says, and yes and probably does love me like that, but sometimes I just sit and ask myself, is he for real? What do I believe? Is he just playing me? I've heard it before so many times and yet the cheating has just continued. At some point you have to ask yourself if you want to live your life always wondering if you're with the devil.
Me: BGF, 43
Him: WBF, 35
Together 9 years, moved in 8/15/2013
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