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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:20 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014
I'm so very sorry. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
whattheh ( member #40032) posted at 10:21 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014
Retired & now in 60's-M 39 Yrs-DD 2013-TT for 3 yrs (new details incl there had been 3 more MOWs)--all this started with porn use for mid 50s WH (felt he was possessed)~~Cheating and aftermath is huge time waste with high opportunity cost~~
Offhispedestal ( member #32528) posted at 12:06 AM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014
The one thing that MOW's H ever told me that is soooo true was " don't try to understand why or how they could do this to you, you will go crazy looming for something that doesn't exist"
I didn't get it. I nearly went insane for months. I still dont get it till this day.
But I now understand what he meant. I'm so sorry for for the pain all this is causing you. 😣
ME-48
WH-49
Married 27
2Beautiful daughters
DD 6/26/10 (he broke down & confessed)
DD#2 3/14/11 H in OW's car
TT 7/1/11 (NC broken, through emails)
In R
LiedtoLucy ( member #39246) posted at 12:39 AM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014
(((((((plainpain))))))).
We are pretty much in the same situation right now. My H's potential OC was born on January 2nd. It is a boy, also.
I feel your pain. It hurts worse than anything I have ever experienced. How is your H doing? Mine has emotionally shut down. He tried to pretend like it wasn't real until he got word that the baby was born. I will have to say that he does actually have more remorse now. It is reality and it sucks.
I am so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, well except for OW.
LTL
Me: BS
Him: WH
OW=Single Coworker
OW had a baby. We do not know if my H is the father.
DDay: 4/23/13
Together: 16 years
Married: 12
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 11, 6, 3
Limbo 2 + years after dday
GingerAle ( member #33822) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014
My heart aches for you. I'm so sorry, ((((plainpain))))
My EXWH: 6 month EA in 2010 OW 1
2 year Sexting/PA 2012-2014 OW2
I divorced him in May 2014
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