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One thing that I've learned from the SI veterans is that the first confession is almost always the tip of the iceberg. That happened to me. Because I believed what he told me at the beginning that I thought that was "it". But the people here in SI, especially those who've BTDT were right in my case. There were more DDays after DDay1. The pain was excruciating after every new discovery. For a BS, it is mind boggling how far they would go to preserve themselves.(see my story in my profile if you want details)

I guess what I am saying is brace yourself for some more "truths" to come out. Heck I was getting some more "truths" as late as Dec 2013 and my Dday was Jan 2013.

Trust your gut -- it is amazing now spot on it is!

Sending strength and love your way.

It does get better. One year on, I still think about my WH's indiscretions, but I don't cry as much anymore.

My pissed off time is 11:00 p.m. to 3 a.m. I thought I could trust too, keep snooping, and take a deep breath when you find more. I hope you don't, but please be prepared. I'm day 10, and much of what I found earlier on is just sinking in. I couldn't go "balls to the walls " with all of it in a confrontation, because I'd be blamed for a bad temper (which I do have now, and I'm damn cranky from lack of sleep and food). Do confront him, but don't give up how you found it. Save that and document it. Hang in there. I'd tell you to get plenty of rest like everyone else, but the reality is, you won't. So nap during the down times. And stay strong.

Have you read www.betrayedwivesclub.blogspot.com beautiful blog for us hurt ladies. Help me a ton after DDay#2