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harrypotter ( member #39526) posted at 4:03 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014
I read it, and I don't really like to read because I am not very good at it. That said, yeah I remember some pain when I was reading it, but I took away some good things out of it so I agree with everyone else READ IT anyway.
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BS-Her (Lostinthismess)
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:05 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014
((Harry))) The thing about reading, the more you read the better you get. Unless you have something like dyslexia, then I can understand how difficult it can be. Good for you for making the effort to read NJF's, that is wonderful!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 5:42 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014
I really wished my WH#2 would have read the book. He got to about page 50 and stopped, saying he does not like to read. I think it would have made our R go smoother if he could have understood more about the slippery slope and how easy it is to fall down. I am sorry it is painful, but I think it is neccessary to true R not to rugsweep any of it. I do not want the sexual details as I already have enough mind movies of my own, but some BS's do want all the details. I hope this book is helpful to you and your BS.
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
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"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
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