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Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 1:43 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
#15: Iz youz horny? Iz he/she horneyz? Youz both horneyz..?!? TELEPATHY!!!!OMFG, congrats!!! Twin flamez!!!
iwillNOT (original poster member #40605) posted at 2:33 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every
Crumbled324 ( member #33902) posted at 3:01 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
The twin flame must be of the blue methane varity that they light from their ass.
Seriously, I don't want to be anyone's twin flame. Flames are tempory at best, and too easily snuffed out.
It's a juvenile load of crap.
BH: 47
fWW: 46
Beautiful 9 year old daughter
Married 23 years, Together 29 - High School Sweethearts
Reconciling
Save yourself. I've taken off my cape, and the only thing the S on my chest stands for is SURVIVNG this.
CantLoseHope ( member #42356) posted at 8:39 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
crumbled, yes the blue methane variety!!!! 
"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 9:01 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
Oh my God this is a thing? I thought it was just a term that a particularly dumb WS made up.
Truly ( member #40715) posted at 9:38 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
CantLoseHope
By the time I read to Number 23 I Truly believed I was losing my ever-loving mind and that I had, indeed, entered the land of unicorns farting rainbows!
Twin Flames: sounds like an STI that needs treating stat.
There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 9:41 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
FacePunched wins the thread!
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 10:20 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
Uh...that list...
SMH
WTeverlovingF!
Basically, if you're in a disfunctional relationship, you MIGHT be a twin flame. Because that's how that list reads to me. Push-pull-push. Mirroring. Already in a different committed relationship. Overlooking dealbreakers.
That shit isn't fate, destiny or romance. That's every damn thing I've learned is a red flag to a BAD relationship.
Let me add a few:
If your head is up his arse and you smell roses, you might be a twin flame.
If your mama would tell you "Run girl, he's bad news!" you might be a twin flame.
If the prison guards don't understand your luuuurv and keep yelling, "No touching!" you might be a twin flame.
If he brings you roses after he hits you, you might be a twin flame.
If you call out to "god" during the big O, you might be a twin flame.
Have everloving mercy on the crap people will believe. 
What we have here....is a failure to effing THINK.
[This message edited by Holly-Isis at 4:22 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)]
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 10:25 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
bionicgal ( member #39803) posted at 10:30 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
I, also, thought the Twin Flame thing was just one particular waywards poor metaphor, and turns out it is a thing! That actual people believe in. . . wonders never cease.
You guys are hilarious, by the way.
me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.
BeyondBreaking ( member #38020) posted at 10:43 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
Shit- I read this thread and discovered I have like 82638292836 twin flames.
The guy next to me at work brought chips. And I. Love. Chips.
Twins!
Dude at the store yesterday bought tomatoes AT THE SAME TIME I was buying tomatoes.
I'm planning the wedding today.
I was turning into a parking spot, and this boi wanted the same spot!
What are the odds?!?!
Twin Flames= great minds think alike + on fire
I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.
"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 10:49 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
BB- *gasp*
I have a twin flame.
Every day during my commute I would see a guy driving a car with the plates "Druscam". He MUST be my twin flame since I encountered him frequently. I even saw the car again after we moved away then moved back.
Here I thought it was just my daily chuckle during my commute because it was a Camry not a Camaro. Turns out- TWIN FLAMES!
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
traditoperanni ( member #32660) posted at 10:54 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
Tell him he can take his "twin flames" and blow it out
his a**.
Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet
iwillNOT (original poster member #40605) posted at 1:02 AM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Lollllllllllllz! It just gets better! Love it!
Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 1:28 AM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
God I love this site. A wise poster once posted about the chemicals involved with "love", and another wise poster eloquently said that love is a CHOICE. Hearing those sure blew all the pixie dust off the twin flame Disney ending fantasy. There is no "only one person meant for another"… And that's kind of comforting. 
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 1:32 AM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
If the prison guards don't understand your luuuurv and keep yelling, "No touching!" you might be a twin flame.
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
It's just another religious thing used as an excuse by selfish people to be selfish. It is kinda dumb but I think the concept of souls is kinda dumb so, I guess it depends on where you're standing.
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