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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 8:59 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
Another CSA survivor here.
I talked to my BH about the abuse sometime after d-day. I had tis vague feeling of needing to process it even though I had refused to talk or think about it my entire life. Except for telling my mom after it happened and her telling me I was imagining things. 
I can relate to the fear that talking about your CSA after your infidelity has come to light is making excuses for your A. I would encourage you to reject that voice in your head. You own your bad choices. Processing CSA is tough and painful don't let guilt over your A be an excuse to stuff the CSA back in the closet. Keep working on getting healthy one step at a time.
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
mrs7 ( new member #42505) posted at 1:44 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014
Me -WW - 49
Him -BH -45
DD - 1-21-14
no children together
M - 3 1/2 years, together 7
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