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WeepingBuddhist ( member #39139) posted at 1:27 PM on Monday, March 31st, 2014
Sounds like you did fine!
What a sad little life she has if that is her method to have to feel something. what a bitch.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Dagny07 ( member #16928) posted at 10:33 PM on Monday, March 31st, 2014
I always imagine the OW with a booger hanging out of her nose.
Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 30 years, together 37 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:52 PM on Monday, March 31st, 2014
You handled that well.m the nerve of him to try to talk to you. I can't see how that would make OW happy - her 'man' with a little m seeking out and trying to talk to his X?
There's a line in 40 Year Old Virgin:
You should keep your ho on a leash.
Sounds like he's on a tight leash. Poor muffin.
Smirk away OW - you're the one wasting your life with a lying, cheating POS. Yeah, good luck with that.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Caretaker1 ( member #42777) posted at 3:51 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Two peas in a pod. I understand standing your ground and not wanting to be perceived as backing down, but think of it as NC or reducing your time running into immature, cruel assholes. Is this high school? In his 40s and he needs to pull this stunt?
We are good people. Fuck these assholes. Douchebag, not only has 3 kids and ruins a marriage, but then, acts like this. Next time, go to a different mountain. It's not running away, it's a form of weeding out dickheads in our lives. You confronted them, but let it go. I would have said something rude after seeing that smirk. More power to you..
I have a friend who is so good at just looking at his ex and saying nothing or saying something like....and? It's hysterical, but he's got the wtf and are you kidding attitude. My parents say be true to yourself. He's a dick and so is his condescending partner. Karma where are you?
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Oftencheatedon ( member #41268) posted at 4:03 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
I had a horrible ex who approached me at a party with his best friend.
When he asked me a question I looked at his friend (who I did not dislike) and gave a short answer.
Then I excused myself.
badmedicine ( member #41692) posted at 4:04 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
I thought I was going to see OW recently at a conference for work. I knew that inside I would be a mess but my plan (never had to use it because she wasn't there, or at least I didn't see her) was to imagine a pile of gross, steaming dog shit on the sidewalk. I wanted to make *that* face in her direction and then do what I would do with the poop...step around it and keep walking. Maybe that visual will help? 
"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
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