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Divorce/Separation :
Beat down. I need a hug.

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sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014

(((((triple)))))

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

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Caretaker1 ( member #42777) posted at 1:55 PM on Thursday, May 1st, 2014

Undetsttod....I was told via text this past week....you make me sick....the demeaning devaluing statements continue. This comment was made over a benign issue. Divorcing someone you suspect as having bipolar I or BPD or NPD is difficult. Throw in aggressive in ex inlaws , high priced lawyer, maontaining a home, etc, but yet I still laugh each day.

This stain of my journey will so eday end. The money will regrow and the material things will be replaced.

Day at a time sometimes minutes at a time.

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NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 2:24 PM on Thursday, May 1st, 2014

((((Tripletrouble))))

I'm so sorry.

Everything happens for a reason" one more time, I might just lose it.

Ditto.

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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Dawn58 ( member #37656) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, May 1st, 2014

(((tripletrouble)))

I hear you!! I know exactly how you feel. This is not an easy path especially since we did not choose to be on it. Yes, I'll take complete devastation over what I thought was a good marriage!!!!

I am tired of people telling me I shouldn't be angry, to just forgive and move on. I am not there yet.

Or, one affair is not a deal breaker...........

I know I am heard and understood here.

Oh, the other one - you're still young..........

I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

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