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				    				sunsetslost ( member #39885)		posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014	
				Divorced 7/11/14.   New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.		
	 	 			
				    				Caretaker1 ( member #42777)		posted at 1:55 PM on Thursday, May 1st, 2014	
			 
	Undetsttod....I was told via text this past week....you make me sick....the demeaning devaluing statements continue.  This comment was made over a benign issue.  Divorcing someone you suspect as having bipolar I or BPD or NPD is difficult.  Throw in aggressive in ex inlaws , high priced lawyer, maontaining a home, etc, but yet I still laugh each day. 
 
 
	This stain of my journey will so eday end.  The money will regrow and the material things will be replaced. 
 
 
	Day at a time sometimes minutes at a time. 
 
			 	 			
				    				NaiveAgain ( member #20849)		posted at 2:24 PM on Thursday, May 1st, 2014	
			 
	((((Tripletrouble)))) 
 
 
	I'm so sorry. 
 
 
	
Everything happens for a reason" one more time, I might just lose it.
Ditto. 
 
			 			Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it.  You are not a tree.		
	 	 			
				    				Dawn58 ( member #37656)		posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, May 1st, 2014	
			 
	(((tripletrouble))) 
 
 
	I hear you!!  I know exactly how you feel.  This is not an easy path especially since we did not choose to be on it.  Yes, I'll take complete devastation over what I thought was a good marriage!!!! 
 
 
	I am tired of people telling me I shouldn't be angry, to just forgive and move on.  I am not there yet. 
 
 
	Or, one affair is not a deal breaker........... 
 
 
	I know I am heard  and understood here. 
 
 
	Oh, the other one - you're still young.......... 
 
			 			I got into the marriage, because I loved him.  I got out of the marriage, because I love me.  		
	 	 
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