Yes I know, but I said if she ever needs to talk,that I am there, even if it is just to let her anger out.
I understand, I guess because we were all talking about it, and i asked advice off other people it seemed like a good idea. I see now that it was wrong, but I guess the positive out of it is, that I don't have any other reason to contact her only in regards to the money, which my sisters partner said she will contact my XGF and ask her how she wants it, so I am not contacting her directly.
I do try and not go to those certain clubs, as the town i live in is very small. I didn't go the other day as i thought she might be going out there. And even though I wasn't there for the whole night, i decided to go to another place, where she wouldn't have gone. As i was doing everything she asked ignoring her, giving her no eye contact, making sure to avoid her.
I originally never wanted to go to that place. But all my friends were going, and they said that they would look after me and that it will be fine, so i trusted them.
I got a call off of her this morning, she was upset and angry, argued about the laptop which i guess i anticipated. But then asking why I would message saying I care. That she only wanted to punch me in the face. And that she doesn't know why she wanted to speak to me. I guess the one worry i got is will this always happen after shes been drinking wanting to call me and speak to me. She was shouting at me over the phone, and i was speaking calmly and trying to not to argue. She then had hung up. I did try to call back as I didn't know if it was just the phone cutting out, but there was no answer, i believe she just denied the call.
So I am not calling back or messaging back unless she contacts me. As I don't want to harrass her. I just wish there was something I could do.
I am just really confused as to why she would want to speak to me, I understand she is drunk and emotions are running high. It's just all confusing for me and I don't know what to do