but what I don't get, is does that WS understand that WE as BS could have/ & most of us probably would have liked to have done the same thing they did??? Go out & have an affair and hide our problems in someone else's arms?? In someone else's bed?? I'm sorry...no really I'm not...I don't buy their excuses!
I'm with you ONE THOUSAND PERCENT Trying2LoveAgain, when I found out about my WW's first affair the first thing out of her mouth was, "Well you could have been having an affair the whole time too, right, like that could have happened"?
NO NO NO - one million timex NO! I would never cheat NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!! 
STOP it you WS, we are not all cut from the same cloth, some of us would rather cut our own throats and die in a pool of our own blood before we join your club!
Do I sound angry to you? 
No, when I was given the chance to cheat and let me tell you ,there have been more than I care to admit, I did this.. "good night..." and left. NO I did't twirl my hair and start making googley eyes 
at the other person...oh my you are soooo nice.. STUPID, stop it!! Horrible thinking!
[This message edited by steppingup at 6:31 PM, July 21st (Monday)]
