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OW was 20, FWS was 36, oldest stepD was 19.

Honestly, I think (thought) the younger they are, the more sh*t they're willing to put up with. But she's almost 30 now, and she still settles for so much less than I ever would.

WH was 48, OW was 30. Midlife crisis definitely played a part, though isn't the whole reason. He was old enough to be her father and she actually asked him to spank her. (Of course, Daddy did!) Ugh!

Deep breathing time. Must. Not. Maim….Visibly.

I do the calculations in my mind too. She wasn't even born when he graduated from high school. She was 3 when him and I met. She was 5 when our first DD was born. She was 7 when we married. She was 9 when our DS was born. And she was 15 when our youngest DD was born.

Now he says he didn't even think about their age difference. That is complete bull. When I would question his 'friendship' with her months ago, he would say 'that's ridiculous! She's only 23!' or my favorite was 'do you really think a 23 year old would want your husband?'

My WH was 59 and solicited a prostitute on back page that was "25" course she looked much older--he has a daughter who is 30. Sick

OW was 30, and he was 55. I am almost 9 years younger than him, and am still youthful looking and beautiful. He said it had nothing to do with her age, just that she was willing. Still makes me sad though because my 47 year old body that had 3 children will never compare to a 30 year old. I think my H really liked the idea that someone still young was interested in him. All in all it makes me sick.

34 and 18 my ex and his ow. Our oldest ds is 3 years younger, it's gross

Yep husband in his 40s and OW was only 19 when they started sleeping together... I still think it's gross that a 40+ year old is sexual with a teenager. Some major issues on both their sides...

What I can't understand is WHY??? I can't imagine wanting to be with a man 20 years older than me! It's gross! And I have a 16 yr old son...I would want to be with anyone anywhere near his age!! (20's, 30's, etc). I look at 20 yr old "boys" and think they look like kids!! SMH! It's sick and pathetic!

WH 47

COW 31

What I can't understand is WHY??? I can't imagine wanting to be with a man 20 years older than me! It's gross! And I have a 16 yr old son...I would NOT want to be with anyone anywhere near his age!! (20's, 30's, etc). I look at 20 yr old "boys" and think they look like kids!! SMH! It's sick and pathetic!

WH 47

COW 31

Hold on.....my skeevy 64 yr old husband tried to screw a 20 yr old prostitute, but couldn't get a sufficient erection, so had to settle for a BJ. He told me the cumdumpster actually said to him "hey. You don't look that old". I think she was looking at the envelope of money instead of him. Our daughter is 36. Our granddaughter is 5. So the scurrying rat whore he picked is halfway between the ages of his daughter and granddaughter. So......sickeningly I ask, do I win?

Unfortunately I think I have you all beat. My 59 year old ex husband is living with his 20 year old girlfriend, apparently soon to be wife. I have heard that he is bothered when people refer to her as his daughter.

We have 4 kids - 25, 22, 20, and 18. He moved out of state 2 years ago, and our kids don't want anything to do with her, period, or him if she's around. They will not visit him. He has told them that it's their loss, their problem. Needless to say, they are devastated and disgusted.

I was typing when GotMeGood posted. That beats my ex's 39 year age difference.

[This message edited by SwimminNotSinkin at 10:46 PM, August 2nd (Saturday)]

I'm sure that there a many relationships with huge age differences that are genuine and loving but I totally get the need to bash. My ex H's OW was almost 15 years older so I guess we were the reverse of most situations! I'm still younger then she was when they got together and can't even imagine looking at someone the age he was!

Just wondering if these cradle robbers are either wealthy or very handsome?

My H was 55 at the time of our last DD. OW was 26. The age difference between OW and me is the same as it was between my mother and me - and I was the third child. It has been really hard for me to deal with.

My exH is 16 years older than the hotel receptionist who couldn't keep her underwear on.

I could have given birth to her.

To me, that is SO wrong. It would be so wrong, too if I had an affair with some guy that young too.

Cradle robbing is a sick reality IMO. My exh now has 3 illegitimate kids with this husband stealer. My ex is SO much older than everyone in his house. To be a bug on the wall witnessing their life together would be priceless.

Lurking and decided to post.

Mow is 13 yrs. Older than wh and 12 yrs. Older than me. It bothers me. It's gross to me that when wh was in kindergarten mow was already graduating high school. Mow was married to her 1 st h and had a child when we were still in elementary school. Mow has a daughter who is close to 30 and a son in his early 20's. She has a 11 yr old daughter from her 2nd marriage. She is a grandmother. I know mow age didn't matter to wh in the bigger picture of things. When I see her or pics of her. I still am struggling to accept that wh was with her. For me I just really think it's gross to be with another woman's husband and that he was so much younger. But that's just my opinion. Mow and wh had nothing in common...well except both were selfish, horny and looking for an escape into fantasy land. My wh likes rap. Mow likes country. Wh dresses in jeans and sneakers. Mow wore business attire. They are from two very different world's but I guess that was the attraction. To me mow is a cradle robber. Some might call her a cougar. I think being referred to as a cougar is pretty offensive.

BetrayedPregnant: no, WH is far from wealthy and entitled-he wishes. Not particularly handsome, but not a troll either. I guess if you are of the mindset to deceive your wife, betray your moral code, purchase a body to have sex with, go with your most self-absorbed desires and actions, need an actress to tell you that you are sexy and virile, go trolling through prostitute ads, then you may as well chose a 20 yr old body to do it with......as grossly inappropriate as that is. The whole fucking thing is astonishingly inappropriate.

Just wondering if these cradle robbers are either wealthy or very handsome?

In the case of my ex, no on both counts. The guy was a financial disaster, made less money than me and was pretty average looking. In fact, he looked a lot like her estranged father. Hmm...

@ gotmegood Yes, I think you have us all beat.

@nolight and @sunflowergirl I was beginning to wonder if there was any reverse situations.

@betrayedpregnant My WH is handsome, by no means wealthy, but I'm sure to a 23 year old he appears to be. She doesn't have to deal with paying our mortgage, bills, and putting food on our table and I'm sure has no idea how much student debt he has, if she did she would run.

Well, I'll be damned. Another fun side benefit for having been cheated on. I've got the WH with the most inappropriate age difference with AP. A win in the cradle robber category. Woo-hoo!