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soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 1:15 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

cheaterasshole

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

posts: 646   ·   registered: May. 25th, 2011
id 6899033
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Garnet ( member #39070) posted at 2:00 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Loser#cheater#asshole#lying#motherfucker# that's it or now!! ❤️ All of u!!!

Garnet☀

posts: 84   ·   registered: Apr. 24th, 2013   ·   location: MA
id 6899076
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bluelightshine ( member #37539) posted at 2:03 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Blind

BS(Me) 32
SAWH (Beaker) 35
Married 11 Years
Dday Oct 06 2012
Dday 2 February 19 2014
Confessed to getting blow jobs from
prostitutes in 2006 and while living with OW
PA/EA 1 year
In r
2 children under 10
Working on faith everyday.


posts: 66   ·   registered: Nov. 18th, 2012
id 6899082
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Girlietoo ( member #38719) posted at 2:30 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Remorseful

Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

posts: 282   ·   registered: Mar. 13th, 2013   ·   location: Canada
id 6899113
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nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 2:32 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Selfish.

Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................

posts: 1306   ·   registered: Sep. 18th, 2012   ·   location: U.S.A.
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solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:42 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Himself ... For the first time, sans mask.

Others that apply (take your pick):

Unrecognizable

Remorseless

Affectless

Icy

Dishonest

Unfaithful

Sociopathic

Self-serving

Narcissistic

Non-empathetic

Dangerous

Cruel

[This message edited by solus sto at 8:44 PM, August 5th (Tuesday)]

BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams

posts: 15630   ·   registered: Jan. 26th, 2011   ·   location: midwest
id 6899123
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Flourgirl ( member #40937) posted at 2:47 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Broken

BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

posts: 190   ·   registered: Oct. 10th, 2013   ·   location: Kansas City
id 6899130
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Asil0623 ( member #42419) posted at 2:50 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

dillusional

Me-BS
Him- FWH 1 yr+LTA w/ COW
DDay Dec 2013
R March 2015
Happy Again

posts: 76   ·   registered: Feb. 10th, 2014
id 6899136
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lovedmesomehim ( member #25743) posted at 4:55 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

I'll take two, Alex....

Coward

Liar

Lovedmesomehim

posts: 485   ·   registered: Oct. 5th, 2009
id 6899274
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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 5:00 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Cheap selfish asshole

Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2687   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 6899280
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Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 6:11 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Lost


posts: 3615   ·   registered: Oct. 10th, 2012
id 6899340
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FightingBack ( member #34770) posted at 6:40 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Weak

Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

posts: 1459   ·   registered: Feb. 9th, 2012
id 6899355
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Charmedwren ( new member #44149) posted at 1:32 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Manipulative

Me - BW
M 23 years
DD #1 Jan 2013
DD #2 Apr 2013
DD #3 Dec 2018

posts: 37   ·   registered: Jul. 18th, 2014   ·   location: GC, Australia
id 6899515
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hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 3:38 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

sad

me-BS him-WS

" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."

posts: 2885   ·   registered: Apr. 24th, 2014   ·   location: sunny california
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stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 3:46 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Post d-day??? Which one?

1st - arrogant at first - false R

2nd - annoyed (with me for having checked on him)

3rd - subdued (he found out I had been in contact with a lawyer)

Now at a year out of pulling his head out of his arse - trying

ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse

Lawyers involved.


posts: 689   ·   registered: Jan. 16th, 2013
id 6899668
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Time Ticks On ( member #33772) posted at 4:26 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

cheater

FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

posts: 2001   ·   registered: Oct. 31st, 2011   ·   location: Down South
id 6899730
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Melian40 ( member #41205) posted at 5:10 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Crocodile.

BW-me:41
BH-him:42
DD-age 10
Together 7 years, married 17 years
DD1:8/12/2013 -OW1-PA 1.5 months in 2009
DD2:8/17/2013 - OW2-EA Spring 2013- He tried to hit on her but she denied.

"You can't fix a broken man, but he can break you"

posts: 401   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2013
id 6899810
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devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 5:19 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Sorry, one word won't do it. I need two.

Betraying Coward. Or Cowardly Betrayer!

If it must be one, coward wins.

[This message edited by devasted30 at 11:20 AM, August 6th (Wednesday)]

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

posts: 1944   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2013   ·   location: Ontario, Canada
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totalheartbreak ( member #41589) posted at 5:30 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

I'm adding another one:

succubus/incubus

“You know hope is a mistake. If you can’t fix what’s broken, you’ll go insane.” - Max Rockatansky

The smart man divorces a lawyer.
The smarter man never marries one in the first place.

To her we were never worth the effort. :-/

posts: 200   ·   registered: Dec. 9th, 2013
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craig2001 ( member #55) posted at 5:31 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014

Shocked when I first mentioned the OMs name and then into defensive and minimizing.

posts: 7391   ·   registered: Jun. 8th, 2002   ·   location: USA
id 6899853
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