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sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 5:49 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
My atty asked if it was normal for an alcoholic to lie or minimize their use and the expert said "no."
Um, pardon me? Any "expert" would know that minimizing and lying are pretty much a given for an active addict.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 6:12 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Mojo mojo mojo!
I think the judge read through that BS from the "expert".
Hoping so for your sake.
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
DMS88 ( member #13461) posted at 10:18 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
When that counselor said an alcoholic would not lie or minimize their use the judge should got that 'expert' for perjury. lol! Wow! I am sure the judge right then and there realized how bias the counselor was at that point. Every person who ever dealt with an alcoholic knows they lie, minimize and then lie some more.
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Me: BS
Him: WS
Discovered the affair: 4 Jan '07. It started in March '06.
Second D-Day 9 October 2007 (same woman). Moved and affair ended.
Currently separated because of his alcohol addiction and boundary issues.
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