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H3LL0 ( member #47872) posted at 5:10 PM on Monday, November 13th, 2017
He's trying to control the situation by ending it on his terms.
Part of the lessons learned of the betrayed is proper boundaries in marriage. I assume you are such a nice person placing others over yourself. This is good but not proper for marriage if applied incorrectly. There are boundaries and respect that must be adhered to. You must stand up and enforce those particular boundaries and that includes that you are not for sale. He doesn't get to go out and have his cake and then come home to dinner. He will not respect you if you allow this.
What good would it do to keep your husband but loose his respect. He needs to know that it stops yesterday, BUT the moment he stops, he can come back home.
Me: BS, 41 Her: WS, 35
4 Children
Married 19 yrs; DDay 3/2015
2nd DDay 4/2015 3rd DDay 5/2015, Breach of NC 4/2016, 9/2016, 10/2016, 12/2016
Started Real Reconciliation Feb/2017
Sadlymistaken ( member #61548) posted at 12:01 AM on Saturday, November 25th, 2017
You make the choice not him .
I let mine make the choice, trust me its not the way to go.
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