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Csulk22,

How are you doing? Join us at Emotional Infidelity part 2 under I can Relate forum..

An STD definitely means more than a massage. I am sure there is more discovery to know....

It definitely is mind blowing. How long have you been together? This is a good place to be. I am glad you are here. I am so sorry you are hurting. There is so much to learn and understand. I wonder how committed your BF is ?

Hi Sherlytemple You asked if we are still together. He lives in the basement but I asked him move outlast night. It's impossible for me to heal while seeing him everyday. It's like he the walking dead. He's still here but the man I knew is gone. Mine hasn't been willing to do "whatever it takes" to save our marriage. He's been blaming me, minimizing and generally out of touch with reality. He swears he's done. But spends his nights in bars playing pool, without a wedding ring. He pretty much is just waiting for me to get over it. Doesn't consider my feeling at all. Acts like I have to be a better wife for him to try. It's crazy. Even if he was doing everything right this would be so hard to get passed, but I would try. I feel it in my heart that he is more mad I caught him than desperate to save the marriage.

Jewel...btw- I love your name..:)

Sorry that i have been away.

You are so brave. So strong. It sounds like you know what to do, how to move forward. So awesome. And scary.

I am struggling with my BS, being frustrated and angry with me when I am brave enough to speak my mind. Sigh...they are bastards.

Thanks for being here.