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mouthkeptshut ( member #54085) posted at 1:22 AM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
This place would be bleak and scary without the success stories hanging around to guide people new to all this.
BH
Dday: 7/3/2016, 5 month EA/PA
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 1:40 AM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
There are more reasons to stay on Si other than the infidelity. There are other forums that also provide healing. OT something usually always going on in there. F&G we like to tear shit up down there and it is a little dark humor sometimes.
But really you are having a NB - that's where you should be. Of course in the ICR place there are threads I imagine you can give support to. Not everything here is about Infidelity all the time.
And who says anyone here wants you to leave anyway ???
Me former Booger Bear ...
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Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 2:14 AM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
Don't leave, Cincy!
We all want to hear about your Christmas Eve Eve wedding 
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
rambler ( member #43747) posted at 3:39 AM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
You are one hell of a guy. Glad so much has worked out because you deserve it.
rambler ( member #43747) posted at 3:39 AM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
You are one hell of a guy. Glad so much has worked out because you deserve it.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:01 PM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
Life is full of surprises. I'm glad you're getting happy ones now.
You've got a lot to offer. I'm glad you 'can't' leave.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
99problems ( member #59373) posted at 5:24 PM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
Noob chiming in here to say that your posts have been valuable to me as well.
And that I am happy for you that you have made your way through the hell of infidelity.
Glad to see that you will stay awhile. We need you and people like you here. Thank you.
Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,
ChangeMaker ( member #43899) posted at 6:12 PM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
I'm sorry that any of us have to be here but at least we're all here together.
That's gonna be someone's signature quote for sure!
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
DDay - June 2014
DD 2008 & 2011
Divorced April 1, 2015
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 6:24 PM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
I like coming here now.
I'm glad!
I am very glad that you are staying. You've been very helpful and your advice is awesome. You are paying it forward...and it is appreciated.
This is the reason I stay as well - a ten-year vet, and I plan on being here as long as my fingers can do the walking on the keyboard.
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
shellbean ( member #56536) posted at 6:46 PM on Thursday, September 14th, 2017
No doubt you SHOULD stay! I am glad you are so happy and that your life has become one many will envy
Together 29 years, M 20 years
Dday1 11/3/16 Dday2 11/1/17
PA '96-'98, PA Aug.'15-Nov.'16 Same AP
EA '09-'11
We are reconciled and doing well
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 12:12 AM on Friday, September 15th, 2017
Edited: sorry was about to threadjack.
Keep up the good work!
[This message edited by Notthevictem at 6:13 PM, September 14th (Thursday)]
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DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
twisted ( member #8873) posted at 3:05 PM on Friday, September 15th, 2017
We are ALL invited to wedding, right?
"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
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