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Wow. With friends and parents like that, who needs enemies?

What your son's gf and friend are doing behind his back is deplorable and cruel. What YOU are doing is worse, because YOU should have HIS back and instead, you're just standing there, holding him down while they repeatedly screw him over.

I'm disgusted on your son's behalf. I hope he finds out how poorly all three of you have treated him and gets as far away from you all as possible.

What has your son ever done to you to deserve this treatment?

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Good Grief

Sorry to say,but when your son discovers his mother has been covering for a lying stinking cheating whore, you will have lost him unless you come forward immediately.

Why are you a mother wanting to cause your son the most immeasurable agony ever? Not only has his long time girlfriend been cheating and still is, you the one person who should have his back is lying for her, and to him.

When he finds out,and he will that you were complicent to her cheating, you will be vilified.

There is a post where the son found out his mother withheld the truth. His mother is dead to him now.

If you do not tell him, that will be your fate Mommy Dearest.

You're his mother!

What did the cheater tell you and your daughter that convinced you not to say anything?

Who sent you the email?

What evidence did you receive?

How do you know she cheated yesterday?

OP, there was a thread posted here recently where a guy was very upset that his mother and sister knew his GF was cheating with his BFF, yet they never told him. In that thread, the OP seemed more upset that his mom and sister knew, and did not tell him, than the fact the his GF cheated for 5 years with his BFF.

Are you his mother? If so, he already knows that you know.

I would never speak to my mother again.

Not telling him only makes the situation worse. MUCH WORSE. What happends when she gets pregnant, and then there are kids involved.

Im appalled - You are his MOTHER. His family. His best friend and gf have betrayed him....now you have too!

Most of the time it happens it when hes out of town town or at work. I know that she cheated on him last night.

It would be bad if his wife said it was over and you didn't tell him. It's a whole another universe of bad if the affair is ongoing and you don't tell him.

You even know when she's screwing him. His wife's betrayal of him is nothing when compared to your and his sister's betrayal.

If he finds about you it will mess him up forever.

Please reconsider your position. I am so so so grateful to the person who told me of my husband's betrayal and I am 99% sure my husband would still be cheating on me if I hadn't found out. Your son should not be asked to enter into a marriage with someone who is lying to him. The longer this goes on the more pain he will be forced to deal with and the harder it will be for him to protect his health and his assets from his girlfriend. Divorce is very expensive and painful for everyone. Give him the chance to decide if the marriage is right for him by giving him all the information.

I think it is time for you to see a therapist and discuss this with him/her and figure out how to deal with this.

Wow.....

If I was in your son's shoes......my worthless cheating gf wouldn't be the only one I threw out of my life after I discover her stabbing me in the back....

In this situation, I would come out missing a mom and sister too.

Please don't make me look like the bad guy

Please don't make me look like the bad guy

Well, what did you hope to accomplish by posting here?

I am actually hoping you are a troll.

Admins story in advance if this is inappropriate

Please don't make me look like the bad guy

Worriedone72, lies of omission are still lies. By not saying anything to your son, you and your daughter are also betraying him by supporting the person that is hurting him. Maybe you don't see it that way, but that is why everyone is being so harsh. Before you make your final decision not to say anything, at least discuss this situation with a family counselor. You may think you're protecting your son right now, but when this situation backfires (and it will), you do risk alienating your son from yourself and his sister.

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 11:56 PM, September 16th (Saturday)]

Sometimes, it's better unknown. It would hurt him horribly, and he shouldn't have to live with that because she made a dumb decision. I don't support cheating,but to spare him from that hurt.

So you would rather let him remain at risk of catching a potentially life threatening STD instead.

Such a class act.