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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 4:19 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
I would have a scarlet letter A tattooed on WH's chest.
Edited to add: This ^^^is because he told me that "he is not a cheater----that his A was 'one little blip' in our long marriage"
[This message edited by mchercheur at 9:34 AM, November 10th (Friday)]
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
Jesusismyanchor ( member #58708) posted at 4:50 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
Jeremiah 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you, plans to give you hope and a future
swatter555 ( member #60555) posted at 5:21 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
How about some text on her abdomen below the navel and just above the line of her panties that reads "Good luck ... you're gonna need it. -Han Solo"
Thanks hobort! I told my wife restitution will be required for R and I can’t think of anything better than this 
BS 44
WS 39
DDay July 15,2017
DDay 2 August 9, 2017
mharris ( member #46683) posted at 6:10 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
My tattoo would simply say, Wounded.
imokay ( member #3522) posted at 10:13 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
Some years back, after the A I was in a group and we were asked what we would want on our tombstone. My answer came quickly and I have never wavered from it. My H knows this should I die before he does. I want it to say SHE FINISHED STRONG.
So for a tattoo....let me say I will never get a tattoo only because I don't like pain....but if I got one, it would say I WILL FINISH STRONG and I would probably want it around my ankle. I know! According to my DDs who have several tats a piece, that is one of the most painful areas to get one.
Okay, so it's inner strength! 
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Me: BS - 58 now
Him: WS - 60 now
Married 21 years at time of A
EA/PA that lasted 10 months.
DD: 2/10/02
Fully reconciled.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.
Charlee ( member #50386) posted at 10:45 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
I am liking the infinity sign done horizontally with the word strength or courage written as part of the line where my bracelets would hang, partially hidden, but there.
Unfortunately , I have his name already done with a vine on my right lower back - need to get that done over first!
ME: BS, 67
HIM:62
MARRIED: 45 years
DDay: #1 9/19/15
Dday #2 2/28/18
NoMercy ( member #54563) posted at 12:51 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
I refuse to get a tattoo. Yuck.
There isn't a cheater on this EARTH worth marking myself permanently for. Not ONE.
I'd probably get a Chihuahua instead, to celebrate booting his sorry ass out the door.
Don't cling to a mistake just because you took so long making it.
Some people aren't loyal to you - they are loyal to their NEED of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty...
Northerngal ( member #45481) posted at 1:41 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
Thatbpguy - it’s a cartoon bomb, with a lit fuse. And it’s on my backside. No idea what I was thinking, but it makes for fun party chat. And my kids think it’s hilarious. Luckily no one can see it.
thatbpguy (original poster member #58540) posted at 2:04 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
Thatbpguy - it’s a cartoon bomb, with a lit fuse. And it’s on my backside. No idea what I was thinking, but it makes for fun party chat. And my kids think it’s hilarious. Luckily no one can see it.
I'm trying to process this....
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
twisted ( member #8873) posted at 4:16 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
it’s a cartoon bomb, with a lit fuse
I'm guessing tequila was involved.
"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 4:20 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
Mine would either say "survivor" or would say something to the effect of I no longer fear hell because I've been a betrayed spouse.
Depends on the day I guess 
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.
Bring it, life. I am ready for you.
Clueless921 ( member #52059) posted at 6:11 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
Mine would say, “Trust no one”
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 8:37 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
it’s a cartoon bomb, with a lit fuse
new bucket list item just added....
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
sickofsurviving ( member #52308) posted at 9:01 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
The Japanese have a tradition, to mend broken vases with liquid gold. The scars remain, but become beautiful.
This will be my next tattoo. As soon as I feel mended enough.
BS-me 54
WH 56
Married 2004
4 DDs 35,30,26,25
Sexting affair with his 1st cousin 2007-2008 maybe
D-Day 8-8-15
Married
SMSA925 ( member #43955) posted at 9:19 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
SoS, the art is called Kintsugi. I purchased a beautiful piece after DDay#1 when things were going so well. I was planning to give it to WH on the first VDAY after DDay#1. It was approx 10mos out. We were going to be on vacation in a beautiful place where we had gotten married over 20 yrs ago. It was always a special place for us that we visited often as possible. Less than 12 hours before we were to get on the plane I found evidence he was in a different LTA with a completely different MOW. I found disgusting dick pix he had sent her days before. So, I have a piece of kinsugi for sale. 
Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!
HowIsThisReal ( member #50235) posted at 5:33 AM on Monday, November 13th, 2017
These are funny. I've thought of getting a Phoenix or (rise from the ashes), but I'm not sure. I already have a few other tattoos, and am craving a new one. I've also been thinking of a quote but idk where I'd get it.
Me: BS | D-Day 11/3/2015
Took about 5 years of hard work, but we are R'd.
earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 11:29 AM on Monday, November 13th, 2017
I thought of "kintsugi" but instead went with "kintsukoroi - proof of it's fragility and resilience is what makes it beautiful "
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.
Northerngal ( member #45481) posted at 2:30 PM on Monday, November 13th, 2017
Ok, I’ll give more info. It was shots of raspberry schnapps. For both the “artist” and for me. It was mid day. My backside was in the air, and I signed for a ups package while under the needle. Dr strangelove by motley Crüe was blasting. I had just broken up w my boyfriend (who then became my wh).
30 yrs later, with kids that age, I’m still mortified. I’m an artist and writer in an upper crust town. But I’ll bet there are more embarrassing tattoos than mine under all the fancy clothes.
Northerngal ( member #45481) posted at 2:30 PM on Monday, November 13th, 2017
Oh, and best part, as if it shouldn’t be obvious, it says boom.
twisted ( member #8873) posted at 3:13 PM on Monday, November 13th, 2017
Boom! hahaha!
OK, Nobody else will, so I'll ask, I want to see a picture of this, nothing sexual mind you.
I'm thinking like this?
"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
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