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Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 6:34 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
That is just so awesome to hear!!!
Congratulations to all three of you:)
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 6:55 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
Oh - there you are. I was poking around another board looking for an update.
Glad to here about your perfect wedding.
I agree that you should not hesitate about posting about your beautiful day. Just like the PP stated, I remember looking at posts like this and being so glad to see there really IS light at the end of the tunnel. Even when you feel you yourself will never get there. It does help folks.
Congrats
CincyKid (original poster member #57948) posted at 7:19 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
Thanks everyone. This board was very helpful for me. I had already recovered from what happened to me years ago when I came here but I did have some lingering issues and doubts about getting married again and then the thing happened concerning parental rights and my DD and this place was helpful then too.
I can say there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It takes time plus determination on our part as the betrayed to overcome and become stronger. Not that that is easy. It took me YEARS and several different therapists. Definitely find a good IC if you're having trouble. Another thing I've learned is that emotional trauma is not a do-it-yourself fix. Reading on your own is good but the perspective and insights of a good professional are worth their weight in gold. So many jobs now have programs where you can get free or greatly reduced prices on therapy that you should definitely seek it out. This is coming from a prideful guy that swore I'd never see a therapist. Lay on a couch and ball my eyes out for a shrink? Never. It does help though. It really does. Thanks again.
Betrayed, life over...
Life goes on...
Met sunshine girl, fell in love...
Reconnected with wonderful DD...
Married sunshine girl, happy as can be!!!
Stevesn ( member #58312) posted at 7:30 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
Every life will have it’s highs and lows. It’s so nice to be able to celebrate the highs when they come around.
Cincy I wish you and your DW great happiness. As was mentioned marriage takes work but it should be a labor of love.
If DD is available to come for Even a part of the honeymoon that would be fantastic. Wishing you years of enjoyment with the wonderful women in your life.
fBBF. Just before proposing, broke it off after her 2nd confirmed PA in 2 yrs. 9 mo later I met the wonderful woman I have spent the next 30 years with.
harrybrown ( member #59225) posted at 7:32 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
so glad that you have happiness now and also a good relationship with your daughter after all these years.
Peace.
Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 10:25 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
Omg cincykid,
Love love love your new tag line!
So perfect.
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
Booyah ( member #60124) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
Cincy congrats!!!!
Sounds like you have one hell of a wife that she's good with having your daughter join the two of you on your honeymoon. I think that is VERY cool.
Would love to hear the story how the two of you met as well.
Nothing like the love of a daughter. Glad things worked out for you!!
MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 1:15 AM on Friday, January 5th, 2018
It's so VERY generous of you to share your happiness.
Congratulations Cincy.
Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.
RubixCubed ( member #51615) posted at 3:47 AM on Friday, January 5th, 2018
CincyKid,
If anyone deserves a happy ending, you do. I'm glad you can finally have the life you deserve, and I hope your ex gets the life she deserves, in spades.
"But I'm trying, Ringo. I'm trying real hard to be the shepherd."
tiredofcrying59 ( member #56180) posted at 6:18 AM on Friday, January 5th, 2018
So so happy for you. Congratulations to you, and continued happiness for you and your little family.
BW
Me-59
Him-57
M-33 yrs, not that I "celebrate" it
D-day-10/30/16 2mo.PA w/COW attempting R
new news- like a 5 year A w/COW, no longer attempting R. What am I, an idiot?
Getting on with life, without him.
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