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MikeO (original poster new member #70248) posted at 6:49 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
Update.
I almost tried to "fix it" the more i say that to her the more i got less interested and the more think about what can happen if I do. I decided to just let it go. As this could be a great opportunity for me to get myself together and do better for my son. My concern was that it might hurt more than the last time. It did for a bit.
As for our son, We don't want him to get involve in regards to getting 50/50. We will try to still co parent our son without having boundaries to how long can we have the kid.
Thank you for all the support and Advises again. I'll be lurking here more often to help me get it over with just In case my heart starts to burn.
OptionedOut ( member #69105) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
So she feels entitled to other men, chooses them, and when they aren't around you're option B-D? She isn't a caring partner in your time of crisis?
When confronted, she blames, she gaslights, she makes promises and jerks around your feelings... in order to keep you around AS WELL as the others?
Is this acceptable to you?
Lay down the law of 180. Show her and your children you have integrity and self-respect.
CanoeVA ( member #46071) posted at 5:32 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
Me = BH
fWW- 2014 affair most of year; EA Feb/March became PA April until DDay
Married 1986
DDay- 12/08/14
2 adult children, mid 20s
OM = Wife's best friend's brother
We're both working on R
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