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New Beginnings :
Baggage or Red Flags?

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bookworm19 ( member #54871) posted at 2:04 PM on Sunday, April 14th, 2019

Yes, that's what I tried to say, MakingMyFuture wrote it down much better.

This should be a small /big victory for you, you have your forgotten superpower back.

English is not my language, sorry for mistakes and funny words...

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:37 PM on Sunday, April 14th, 2019

Bullet dodged.

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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LilBlackCat ( member #57470) posted at 7:05 PM on Monday, April 15th, 2019

Honesty, whether good or bad.. Should always be something that should be laid out when someone is obviously looking for info.

I lost a possible SO due to her not noticing that I was still in the process of D.. and during our convo on the phone she was asking very pointed questions.. (I tell you women don't play lol)

But I answered honestly, and when that detail got revealed in one my answers.. Her enthusiasm literally died a horrible death.. I will never forget the tone change in her voice..

She ended up getting upset over "missing" that detail on my profile.

I mean, yeah it sucked.. I really liked her.. but it is what it is.

I will always go with the honest route versus trying to hide something.. cause the truth always comes out and starting a relationship on lies.. only brings you bad karma.. I feel I already got enough of that already. Lol!

Me: BS 43 (Now 50)
Her: WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 9.

Divorce Final as of 9/3/19.

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