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W3IRZ ( member #48882) posted at 11:20 AM on Friday, June 7th, 2019
DaddyDom that is very good insight and perspective.
BS - me 42 on DD
FWH - him 44 on DD
Married 21 years on DD
DDAY- 6/30/2015
8/29/2016 update - Reconcilled and completely happy
AbRamK (original poster new member #70628) posted at 4:47 AM on Saturday, June 8th, 2019
DaddyDom you message is very helpful to view it Fran a different angle, Thank you & thank you all for your responses.
Sometimes, you want to believe that people are something that they are not. But when People’s Actions Keep Showing You Who They Really Are, Believe Them.
toonces ( member #25949) posted at 4:58 AM on Saturday, June 8th, 2019
As my WW (before d-day) got into her 30's, she became very self conscious of her body. When we would have sex, it would be at night with the lights off or with a low wattage night light. I don't remember too many times during the day like when we in our 20's.
What drives me nuts is she had no problem being filmed by the OM and having a video camera shooting up to see all her private parts, or be spattered with his fluids, or taking his genitals in her mouth. There was plenty of light for those acts.
Me - BS
Her - WS
affair length - 6 months with OM
married since 7/92
d-day 4/2002
AbRamK (original poster new member #70628) posted at 7:36 AM on Saturday, June 8th, 2019
Affair sex is more exciting in comparison to the regular sex with BS. BS can’t compete or bring that spark into the marriage sex life.
Sometimes, you want to believe that people are something that they are not. But when People’s Actions Keep Showing You Who They Really Are, Believe Them.
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