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destroyed1 ( member #56901) posted at 3:09 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2019
experienced liars can beat the system.
Me - BH 51, 2 kids, married 30 yrs
The things that you want in life are impossible to achieve if your energy is flowing in the opposite direction.
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 3:36 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2019
An experienced, professional poly examiner will go over all definitions before the exam. They do this so there is no misunderstanding about any question. If the question is a bout sex with someone other than the AP sex is defined to include whatever - oral, hand, PIV, anal, whatever else like fondling, fingering, etc. With infidelity it will be defined to include whatever the betrayed includes under that descriptor.
The questions are worded and reworded by an experienced, professional examiner. They are discussed with the BS and WS so there is no misunderstanding about the intent of the question.
If these things are not done I would question the competence of the examiner and the value of the exam. It must be done right to be of value.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
LongSigh ( member #61954) posted at 7:35 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2019
My wh told me “everything” (lmao)
After awhile I decided to make him take a poly because my gut told me there was more. A couple of days before the appointment, he told me more. Her did pass the poly but he failed one question. Should have been an auto fail but somehow he passed. His physical reactions went off the chart compared to his baseline and the rest of the questions. Still, he got a pass.
I just accepted he’s lying but that I can’t prove it. One day I’ll probable walk, until then I’m guess I’m just waiting for him to man up.
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