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FearfulAvoidance ( member #61384) posted at 2:40 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2019
I'm sure that was really hard to do and face him with. It takes courage to put everything on the table and let go of any expectations or control. Good for you for writing the timeline out. Regardless of if he ever wants to see it, he at least knows he now has the option. And you've had the cathartic release of doing it.
I have been trying to give my BS that option for 2 years. And while we have talked endlessly about it, and she now has access to the email account that has nearly every text conversation, I still have not written my own timeline for her. I have let shame override it at every attempt. So kudos to you for pushing through it.
Me: WW, 30s, BP2
Her: BW, 30s (Aftershockgoldfish)
Committed since 2006, married in 2013
6 month OEA (sexting & phone sex)
DDay1 went underground: Nov 18, 2016
DDay2 ended A: Mar 26, 2017
Was offered R: Oct 2017
Dday3 no more lies: Sept 8, 2019
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 10:14 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2019
How are you doing today, Kibs?
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 12:35 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2019
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NotSureAboutIt ( member #69836) posted at 12:07 AM on Friday, September 27th, 2019
Please see your mental health provider. You CANNOT simply go on and off psychiatric medications - that can trigger very bad things. Wellbutrin is extremely unlikely to cause the loss of clarity you describe. It can cause suicidal thoughts. See a professional. Good luck!
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 12:32 PM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2019
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