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Robert22205https ( member #65547) posted at 1:18 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2020
MY WIFE DOESN'T SHOW ANY REMORSE WHATS SO EVER AND FEELS THAT SHE DID NOTHING WRONG THAT'S THE OTHER THING
hi everyone shes back home yesterday from her mothers house she still denies everything and would like to work on our marriage can u believe it
Every spouse has a right to feel safe from infidelity. Your wife failed (and destroyed your trust). It's 100% her responsibility to rebuild trust.
You don't need to work on your marriage. First she needs to work on her character and make herself a safe partner.
Yayo ... you do have solid proof. You don't need additional proof because you saw the text messages. You don't have to prove anything to your friends or family.
Do not agree to rug sweep or minimize her affair. She can't fix a problem when she denies there is a problem - and you can not sort this out or forgive until she proves she is a safe partner.
She should voluntarily quit that job and become 100% transparent and accountable for her time.
Robert22205https ( member #65547) posted at 1:20 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2020
The best thing you can do right now is to detach from your WW. Don’t sleep in the same room, no sex (she might have STD), don’t eat with her, don’t talk to her. This way, you will slowly detach emotionally and you will be in a better position to take decisions that are best for YOU.
good advice
Yayo (original poster new member #72533) posted at 7:46 AM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2020
totally agree i just want more solid proof then its tickets...
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