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Dismayed2012 ( member #49151) posted at 3:27 PM on Thursday, May 21st, 2020
Sorry to hear about your situation oerren. Your GF has shown you who and what she is. When you're not paying what she considers enough attention or when you're not 'emotionally' available for her, she's going to find someone that is. This isn't a little indiscretion on her part. It's a major character flaw. If the OM had been local, she'd have been spreading her legs for him. That's how she, like many before her, would show her gratitude for his attention. Your GF is no different than any other attention-needy person. You must decide if this is how you want your life to play out. Do you want to live your life placating your GF's 'needs' like a dancing monkey hoping she won't look for another man to satisfy her low self-esteem issues? Take it from someone who's been there, that's a miserable way to live life. You have options. Your GF has taken your relationship into the negative. There will never be a better time than now to find someone who's got a moral backbone, pride in themselves, and the ability to commit and be faithful no matter what's going on in or around them. You're worth a better life than you see with your current GF. Take care of yourself. I wish the best for you.
Infidelity sucks. Freedom rocks.
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