Topic is Sleeping.
bob7777 ( member #79867) posted at 5:54 PM on Wednesday, August 30th, 2023
Your reaction is quite understandable, but you should focus on healing and stop self loathing. Start loving yourself again. Stop pain shopping. Stop your denial.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 11:45 AM on Thursday, August 31st, 2023
DGG, think about this lesser discussed part of your situation, as it pertains to the AP: his children.
They have absolutely been betrayed. AP had to make DECISION after DECISION after DECISION to potentially blow up their lives.
--What did they do to lose respect of their father, who is supposed to protect them?
--How did they become so unattractive, that their father was 'pushed' to do what he did?
--What self inflection do they need to do so they will be 'better' children in the future?
Don't dismiss any of the above, just because they aren't the romantic partner in the story. They are totally innocent, and are almost at the entire mercy of their parents....one of who simply discarded them(and their mother) for personal satisfaction.
How is any of that an upgrade?
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
Topic is Sleeping.
