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Unicornsearcher's Daughter has Passed Away

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trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 12:20 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

((((uni family))))

Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
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"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".

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beadmaggie ( member #11925) posted at 12:35 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Still praying hard. (((((((Uni & family)))))))

Me - BS, 55
Him - FWH, 55
Married 32 yrs, 2 children
D-day #1 - Dec. 14, 2000 (OW#1 - "friend with benefits")
D-day #2 - May 31, 2005 (OW#2 - EA/PA)
D-day #3 - Sept 19, 2005 (OW#2)
R'ed

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cantlivewithouth ( member #11939) posted at 12:52 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Prayers for Uni, DD and the entire family.

Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎

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Fallen ( member #4313) posted at 1:01 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Uni, I'm praying that the strength that you've always shown here is strong in your daughter, and that she will continue to fight this and pull through. Will be praying for your dear daughter and your family. (((Uni)))

You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."

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SierraGrace ( member #24259) posted at 1:03 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

OMG..prayers for a peaceful passing if/when it is time, prayers for Uni, Husband and family...God Bless all of you.

BSO(me): 60-ish! How did THAT happen? Was only 50-ish when I first joined in 2009!
Mom to rescued fur-kids
Formerly joined due to awful WSO and took a long @ss time to work my way out of that, but finally did January 2022

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Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 1:05 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

I am so very, very sorry to hear this. Keeping the whole family in my prayers.

“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

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trying2deal ( member #2597) posted at 1:15 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

(((Uni))) Holding you and your family tight, sending you prayers for strength, I'm so sorry.

All truth, in the long run, is only common sense clarified. Thomas Huxley

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kdny ( member #760) posted at 1:17 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Holding them in my heart.

Whether we remain ash or become phoenix is up to us.
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Sometimes the fine line between a nervous breakdown and knowing things will be okay is a pair of furry pants~unfound

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stupidstupidme ( member #11888) posted at 1:20 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

I can't even imagine...

Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 1:21 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Im soooo sorry. I kept praying. Im still praying. Hoping there will be some miracle.

(((uni,family and sweet dd))

Time to be my own bff.

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Altered Now ( member #15274) posted at 1:24 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

May God hold you all.

(((Uni and family)))

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Merry ( member #26674) posted at 1:30 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

I am so sorry, words cannot begin to describe my sympathies.

May God be with you at this most difficult time in your life.

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jean ( member #6387) posted at 1:31 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Be together at this time of great sadness. Sending you love and the most positive vibes I can.

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 1:32 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

No words, just sending peace and hugs

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Nouveau ( member #1731) posted at 1:35 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

{{{{praying}}}}

I sing the songs of a woman who has passed through anger and outrage to a kind of stunned resignation in the face of overwhelming human folly.....

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Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 1:39 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Look at the beauty in this moment of sadness…

In this short period of time over 230 total strangers have reached out to share in this dreadful and taxing moment. We have sent positive thoughts, prayers and energy and now we share the grief that Uni and family are experiencing.

I know nothing we can do will make Uni and her family feel any less sorrow and pain but I am 100% certain that when the time of healing comes there will be comfort in knowing others shared. At that time I hope our humble efforts help Uni find solace.

If you ever read this Uni then keep in mind what becomes obvious to all that read these posts: the reason we care is the exceptional care you have shown to others here.

"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 1:40 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

amen to that, Bigger.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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NewAttitude ( member #1030) posted at 1:41 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Absolutely.

I'm praying for a miracle...

Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.

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bigpicture3236 ( member #27861) posted at 2:01 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

As a mother, my heart so goes out to them both. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.

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unfound ( member #12802) posted at 2:45 AM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

((uni and family))

ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."

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