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Everything William said. It also depends on his job and clearance... my douche is STILL under investigation because his exAP decided to call a military base make threats against him..... 🙄🙄🙄

The military investigated for you and gave the guy a direct order to stop. They asked you to inform them if you had evidence that it continue.

You have the evidence.

You should inform them that the affair continued.

I feel you owe it to ALL people in the military to be truthful and cooperate with them.

WW is so stubborn and she cares a lot about what others think that she will not admit it to anyone and will be miserable as she tries to make it work

I don't think she will do this. She didn't try to make her current marriage work, why would she try to make an even worse marriage work? No, she'll end up cheating on this guy too if he doesn't cheat/dump her first. I know his type. Met a lot of them in the Marines. I guarantee he's already cheating on her while he's overseas.

Casey, you have at least two pressure points to apply to your situation. The AP violating direct orders and you possibly getting a court order to restrict your daughter's residency. Yes, this will prolong the fight, but like you said you would make this happen if necessary to protect your daughter. If this does have potential to drag on into September then does this not play right into your strategy to protect your daughter? On top of that, informing the AP's command that violated orders would probably not play well into evaluating his character when the court considers your request for orders to restrict your daughters residency AND having the AP in her presence.

These a worthy questions to ask you attorney and see what is possible. We can only give you suggestions and ideas to consider. We can confirm for you that waywards just simply do not think much about consequences while still in their, as evidenced in the continued contact between your STBXW and the AP. The best time to strike is when their heads are still up their asses dreaming of unicorns and watching romantic sunsets together. They won't be able to see what's coming and thus won't be prepared for it.

Right now, your friends Jane and Jack are wondering whether to invite you or your ex-wife to next weekend’s party. One of you will lose out. That’s just the way it is and it’s fine. If it’s you that isn’t invited then it doesn’t mean Jane and Jack condone infidelity or are on your wife’s “side”. It simply means that Jane values her higher as a friend than Jack does you.

Actually I think it does mean that Jane is an immoral pile of excrement just like Casey's STBXW.

Actually I think it does mean that Jane is an immoral pile of excrement just like Casey's STBXW.

Yep, exactly