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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 2:26 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
OMG! That's freakin awesome! Can you come to my place and build my little Piper one too! 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 2:44 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 2:56 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Nicely done!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 2:57 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Fantastic! Mama woodworker should go reward herself ith a massage :-D
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
imwideawake ( member #23386) posted at 3:00 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Great job!! I love the pic with the pup. He/ she is soooo proud of you!
Together 21 years.
Married 19
Me: BW
Him XWH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now grown
Divorced 12/04/12
turned123 ( member #33663) posted at 3:13 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 3:23 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
That is freaking AWESOME!! you rock!
Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's
ISPIFFD ( member #26367) posted at 11:06 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
That is a fantastic playhouse!!!! Excellent job!
I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 11:48 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Wow, thanks again everyone. I'm not used to all this positive feedback. Whenever I would try some little project, ex-shat would only criticize me or say that I was guilt tripping him! Sadly, I got so used to it, I stopped trying anything.
Thanks again for all your kind words...it means a lot
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
ManBearDivorce ( member #36258) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
I'm so Jelly of your weather. Right now in MN forecast 6-10 inches of snow in the surrounding metro.
AND IT'S APRIL 22!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Last week we just had 6-10 inches too. Damn!!!!! I think we had more snow in April then all of winter. LOLOLOLOL
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 1:04 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Wow, thanks again everyone. I'm not used to all this positive feedback. Whenever I would try some little project, ex-shat would only criticize me or say that I was guilt tripping him! Sadly, I got so used to it, I stopped trying anything.
Same thing here. Awful, isn't it? 
The person who's opinion matters the most constantly tearing you down.
PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 6:27 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Ohmigosh, how did I miss this! To repeat - Tesla, you totally rock!! You are going to have one very happy Teslet! 
Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled
Honey Badger don't care. - Randall
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 7:02 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Yay!! You *dun* great!!!! I bet the three of you will get tons of enjoyment from this! Every time you look outside and every time you or Teslet are out there, you will both know you did this for him. I bet it's already been the subject of 'show and tell'! It's something he will always remember. Even Lie lie is showing her appreciation.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:25 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Oh WOW,
Well done
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:31 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013
Holy Shit tesla.
That is freaking amazing!!
You are my hero. I've not done anything anywhere near that scale but I too have really enjoyed putting things together for the girls.
What's really weird is that monster always did it but I always wanted to. Never felt like I was 'allowed' to. Not overtly, of course, the manipulation was oh so subtle. Like a whispered "you are not capable".
High five sister - that there is a "I AM MORE THAN CAPABLE" roar if I ever saw one.
Love it!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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