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ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 5:18 PM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
Omgosh, I am so sorry. That is horrible. 
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 5:23 PM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
(((PR)))
I am so glad you have such a supportive network around you and a PO. Maybe I missed it but did it include the children? I truly hope it does cover them also.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 1:48 AM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
I'm so sorry-- sending you prayers and positive thoughts. I'm glad that you're not alone and that his horrific actions were committed in front of many witnesses. Stay safe.
(((PR and kids)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:05 AM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
((Pr))
It is awful. How did it ever come to this? I will never understand them.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
VeryUncertain ( member #37845) posted at 2:56 AM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
PR, that's terrible. I am so sorry. I'm with ButterflyGirl...the fact that it was out in the open is particularly scary.
Stay safe. 
PurpleRose (original poster member #33129) posted at 3:08 AM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
My kids are so jumpy.
The doorbell rang tonight and my son peeked at the door and freaked out because he thought it was his dad. He came running saying MOM!! I think it's dad! It's a grown up and looks like dad!! (Our door has frosted glass)
I grabbed my phone, locked the kids in my room and went to see. It was our new neighbor, thank god, but I felt a huge rush of emotion and lost it after opening the door. I bet she thinks I'm a freak.
I hate this. My son came down from his bath to show me marks on his arm that look just like mine- a line of fingerprints on his bicep. :( damn it. I'm so angry.
My poor baby. This is just so wrong.
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 4:04 AM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
(((((PR)))))
Just sending you love and strength. It's a whole new level of crazy, and I'm so sorry you and the kids having to go through it. 
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 4:17 AM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
I'm sure you've probably already done this but make sure you take pics of all yours and the kids injuries. It'll help with the VPO.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
keeponkeepingon ( member #32935) posted at 9:45 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
PM sent to you and lots of love.
"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 12:02 AM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
((((PurpleRose & kids))))
My heart just breaks for you and your kids. May you all rise above this and find peace.
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
I don't normally post in this forum but wanted to say I hope you and your kids are safe. Sending you all good thoughts
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 4:11 AM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
This is just so wrong.
Yes, this is categorically and completely wrong and very fucked up - but what matters most right now is that you and your kids are safe. ((Hugs)) We're all thinking about you my friend.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
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