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simpleD ( new member #40321) posted at 2:11 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
Sometimes I wonder if my WH will ever "get" the depth of my hurt. The pain & hurt that he caused. I, too, have to watch my tone & temper my little digs when he makes a stupid comment... You know the ones where you wonder if they were even in the same room with you on Dday, when you were confronting them? Were you the man sitting next to me on couch during the hours of MC? Really? It must be compartmentalization. Our MC referred to it as, "the empty box" men go to in their heads. Where they can literally sit there and not be thinking about anything. I wish I had an empty box too. I hope it get to a point where I can look back & laugh. Someday, maybe???
BS(me)48; WH 49
High School Sweethearts
Together 32 years
Married 25 years
DD, 20 years
Dday 8/11
In Recovery
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