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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:18 AM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013
By the way, I do hope that you've had yourself fully tested for STD's. Blood, urine and a Pap, please. You did this, right? Told the doctor to check you for Hep C as well?
And I hope that when you're intimate with your adulterous, promise-breaking, covenant-destroying, disrespectful, cake-eating husband that you insist he wear a condom EVERY time. If you won't do anything to protect your spirit or your emotional/mental health, I hope you will at least protect yourself physically from whatever diseases or infections he brings home from his whore-fest of a Vegas weekend. And from this point onwards, as well. Your health isn't safe with him as long as he's cheating on you.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Softcentre (original poster member #39166) posted at 2:08 PM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013
I'm still mulling on some of this. Thanks.
Just to clarify a couple of things:
* We're not having sex etc. That bakery is closed and boarded up!
* He's not in a relationship with COW...he didn't 'perform' well 
and she doesn't want him that way. But who knows what could happen at a wedding weekend when everyone starts coupling up?
* I got checked out months ago. He was horrified at the thought he could have given me something. He really hadn't given it a thought during...
I'm off to mull the other stuff, though.
Me: BW
Him: XWH
2 Children
Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning
grace68 ( member #28241) posted at 3:24 PM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013
Softcentre
There is a faith based book that I would like to recommend:
Love must be tough by Dr. James Dobson.
It addresses a lot of your questions from a faith based perspective.
Me - BS
Him - Doesn't Matter
Status: Divorced
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