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sodamnlost ( member #37190) posted at 2:01 AM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

How can I learn to respect where he is in the process and not sell myself short in the meantime? I've woken up to what I want out of a relationship and he's not giving it to me.

Hate to T/J but I always read your name as unangie. I assumed your name was Angie and you being on SI wasn't who you thought you'd be. Lol woopies!?

Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016


Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

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 Unagie (original poster member #37091) posted at 3:17 AM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

sodamnlost i am cracking up. The statement you posted pretty much sums me up.


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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 3:48 AM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

It's interesting what guides us each to post in certain forums - I still feel intimidated by F&G, silly as that sounds, lol.

This was my first thought:

Unagie, welcome. Please feel open and comfortable to share. While this forum is primarily populated by the BS, that doesn't mean you aren't welcome. You will be supported.

So please pull up a chair at the table. Sip from the glass of compassion. Sample from the plate of experience.

I don't even post as much here now, but I think you are a welcome addition.

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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