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scarednbroken ( member #41961) posted at 8:15 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
I have the phone number of every single OP he has talked to or texted in the last 20 years. I have done nothing with it. Many of his current pursuits are married, have a BF, or SO (some are Bisexual hes looking for a three way).
I have thought about contacting them to tell them he will be a free man. Telling them that even though they thought it was all a secret and exciting, it wasn't. His regular long term OW is skittish. She keeps stringing him along saying she wants out, but then gets drawn back in. If I tell her, I know, she may freak out and be worse off then I am. Where that makes the b*tch in me smile (maybe evilly laugh), it makes the Christian in me weep. The others are all taking money from him their BS may or may not know... I couldn't even begin to know how to contact them as I don't have last names, only first, sometimes, and the woman's number.
BS: Me 47 WH: 54 Kids: 17, 19, 21, 32 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for
Hurthalo ( member #41782) posted at 6:47 AM on Saturday, January 18th, 2014
My WW tried to do similar; deny deny deny, until I found out from OMW that the OM had owned up to far more than what my wife had.
Onky after two months of constant TT have I finally gotten the truth.
My WW also made the mistake of thinking she could hide her affair from a military intelligence officer who also likes to dabble with computers...
Your intuition served you incredibly well. Please look after yourself and I hope all is getting slightly better.
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