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Help, help! I think he abused my little girl!!

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:05 PM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

I hope that you can feel all of our arms around you, during this horrible, indescribable time. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 5:10 PM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

You're doing the right thing, Sorc.

I'm glad that the police are treating you both with respect and taking your concerns seriously.

Regardless of how this turns out, your DD will remember that you believed her and that you took action.

{{{hugs}}}

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 5:26 PM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

I'm with Gonnabe on that one.

I'm in the UK too and the police take a bit of a knocking from time to time, but when it comes to something like this, they know what they're doing and your little girl is in safe hands.

(((Thinking of you and your little family)))

Me 52 (BS) Him 60 (EXSAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.

Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)

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Twitchy ( member #25393) posted at 5:29 PM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

Sorceress, the people who do these types of interviews are a special breed. They,re pros who take a lot of training and have a lot of experiences interpreting what kids say and what they don't say. Have confidence. You'll know more soon.

BH(me)-57, FWW-Past,D-Day #1 - Oct 2007 - On-Line EA leading to a failed rendez-vous. D-Day #2 - Nov 2008 - In person EA caught early.

Away you will go, sailing in a race among the ruins.If you plan to face tomorrow, do it soon. Gordon Li

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 5:32 PM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

((((((Sorceress & DD))))))))

Sending both of you strength & hugs...

2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:40 PM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

((((Sorceress & DD))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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megs56 ( member #40791) posted at 7:36 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

((((Sorceress & DD))))

Thinking of both of you

2013:
Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

2014 - I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:01 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

((((Sorceress & DD))))

Sending strength your way.

((((Sorceress & DD))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 9:04 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

Your doing what is best for your little one. She will remember your wanting to protect her.

Take care my dear. Strength and hugs to you both.

WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown

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