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seethelight ( member #43513) posted at 5:54 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
-On Day--- in a word: embarrassed.
-Later:
annoyed, arrogant, trickle truthing, minimizing, blameshifting, denying, rewriting marital history
-After I put his cloths outside in garbage bags:
sad but still blameshifting, scared, but still blameshifting, suddenly showing true remorse and regret most of the time, but not always.
-Two plus years out:
Split, Sometimes Seemingly remorseful ,and appears to understand the damage done, but other times he still acts seemingly resentful, that he no longer has my trust and the freedom that trust afforded him.
“If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:57 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
99lawdog99 ( member #42615) posted at 6:01 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
Can't just be one word as so many apply. The way I see it
Sad, Selfish, Liar, Heartless, Cheater, Delusional, SelfCentered, Baby, And finally----Used.
Me 54
WW 45
Married 25 years, together 27 WW's first and only til A
In R
"Sometimes we have to be knocked down to our lowest point so that we can reach our highest Level"
99lawdog99 ( member #42615) posted at 6:02 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
Sorry, duplicate post
[This message edited by 99lawdog99 at 12:14 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)]
Me 54
WW 45
Married 25 years, together 27 WW's first and only til A
In R
"Sometimes we have to be knocked down to our lowest point so that we can reach our highest Level"
bent44 ( member #31386) posted at 6:22 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
On dday: @#$%&-+&%$*$@&$=$%%#
Present: Insignificant
"If you marry a chicken, don't expect an eagle."
I don't know if my chicken will ever become an eagle. But rest assured, I'm going to be a phoenix. Nevermind that I am still in the ashes stage of the process.
Update...he
Arden ( member #44285) posted at 10:07 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
Dead.
Applies to how I felt inside, how I wanted him...and her.
Me - BGF 31
Him - WBF 32
Together 8 years
Dday 7/21/13 ("Mostly" EA)
Got TT, but both trying to R
AmSoDone ( member #43871) posted at 10:12 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
I need 2 as well:
Broken
Lyingcheatingscumbag
Does that count? (or I can't count 
)
BP(me) 53
WP (scumbag) 55
On-off for 32 years
1DD
1 DGD
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 10:19 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
I didn't know it at the time, but
IRRELEVANT
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 10:19 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
D-day til D-day + 8 months.....Broken
Post...........................Remorseful
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
OutoftheDeep ( member #42601) posted at 10:20 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
Me - BW 40s
He - exWH 40s
2/15 Over. I had enough. I don't care anymore, and it feels awesome. He can have all the strippers, coworkers, and exes he wants now. Except now he doesn't think they're so appealing. Oh well.
justme1264 ( member #42890) posted at 10:23 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
Shayna71 ( member #42105) posted at 10:32 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
Me: BW 46
Him: WH 43
3 month EA and PA w/a mutual friend
DDay 09/20/2013
Married over 20 years
DS 25, DS, 18 DD, 17 (On DDay)
Currently in R
Why Repentance Is Necessary? Because Undeserved Mercy Empowers Entitlement/Sin
Amazingyetlost ( member #43745) posted at 5:31 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Have to make a word up for that one:
"Whothehellareyou?!?!?!"
ME: 63 BW
HIM: 62 EA & PA, ten months (madboomer)
Married: December 24th, 2013; he started the A in the months before wedding
D/Day: June 3rd 2014 (karma bus ran them over on OW birthday); NC June 4th 2014
Just sad all of the time
Brentwood ( member #27465) posted at 5:44 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Happily divorced after seven years of false R and TT. I'm sixty, single, and spectacular!
SorryInSac ( member #44108) posted at 5:48 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Me - 47-PoS
BW Gabybaby. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total
Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 6:02 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
outtanowhere ( member #39001) posted at 6:03 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Me-clueless BS Dday - 2/19/13 "This isn’t flying. It’s falling with style".Buzz Lightyear - Toy Story
shatteredapart ( member #41978) posted at 1:01 PM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell
SparrowSoul ( member #44223) posted at 6:04 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Me: BGF, 29
Him: WBF, 35 (RMarred)
D-Day: 7/5/2014, seared into my memory like a brand.
"Dum spiro, spero." - "While I breathe, I hope."
The cure to all of life's problems is salt water; Sweat, tears, or the Sea.
Littleleaf ( member #37752) posted at 11:37 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
one word ??
disappointing
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