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Reconciliation :
"You need to lower your expectations"

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 neverdidithink (original poster member #40568) posted at 10:00 PM on Thursday, August 14th, 2014

We were able to talk a little more today and I'm feeling more hopeful.

I'm going to take the kind advice offered and I'm making a pledge to myself to concentrate on living in the present. For the next 10 days, I will worry about today and what's in our future rather than what's in our past. I will not hold the A over WH's head or play the trump card when we disagree.

I know this won't change everything and any changes that come from this won't happen overnight, but I owe it to myself to step out of the shadow of the A and feel sunshine on my face.

Thank you all, you have given me so much to think about, offered so much good advice and shared such kindness. I'm really humbled.

BS, 57
M 13 years
second marriage, second WH
4 kids in their 20s

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