GoldenR, I have read threads about the WS's
ability to remember details of the affair for more
years then I want to admit.
WW's and WH's that remembered it all. Those that
could not.
I have read where BS's say there WS has a bad
memory and could never remember details about
things not even affair related.
Psychologists state that trauma, including trauma
WS's have after their affair block things out as a
healing mechanism. They need to not recall what
happened so they do not trigger.
So at what point does a BH know that his WW has
told him everything?
There is no point. Because we can never know.
Even if the WW does a poly to show that she is
not lying it is an anticlimactic moment and
hard earned money poorly spent.
Why?
The BH still will never get the answers to his
questions.
