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 BrokenDad (original poster new member #38927) posted at 8:19 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2019

RocketRaccoon, you are absolutely right about this. The WS mentality seems to consist of taking their spouses for granted, a sense of entitlement, and a lack of empathy for the person they’re supposed to care about most. Infidelity is a very cruel violation of the marital commitment.

I just wish I would have insisted on separating years ago.

Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy. There can be no reconciliation without honesty and empathy - lots of empathy.

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 BrokenDad (original poster new member #38927) posted at 8:19 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2019

Sorry, double post

[This message edited by BrokenDad at 3:23 AM, June 21st (Friday)]

Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy. There can be no reconciliation without honesty and empathy - lots of empathy.

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 BrokenDad (original poster new member #38927) posted at 8:19 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2019

Sorry, double post

[This message edited by BrokenDad at 3:24 AM, June 21st (Friday)]

Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy. There can be no reconciliation without honesty and empathy - lots of empathy.

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 BrokenDad (original poster new member #38927) posted at 8:19 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2019

Sorry about the triple post here. I clicked the Submit button 3 times on accident, and I don’t see a way to delete a comment.

[This message edited by BrokenDad at 2:25 AM, June 21st (Friday)]

Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy. There can be no reconciliation without honesty and empathy - lots of empathy.

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RocketRaccoon ( member #54620) posted at 9:21 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2019

a sense of entitlement

Ding! Ding!

This is a (not the only one) key factor in WS thinking. They deserve things.

PS - You can edit your posts, and put at *sorry double post* comment instead

You cannot cure stupid

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