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PiQue ( member #17575) posted at 4:34 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Continued healing prayers for you and your family.

Me/BW 50+
Him/WH 60+ Long Distance LTA
NEVER ignore your gut.



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latebloomer45 ( member #18021) posted at 5:49 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Freedom from all the earth's problems, suffering & evils to be perfectly safe, happy, loved & now exactly as she was created to be by God while perfectly protected by Him.

Amen and Amen. You have said goodbye for only a little while.

US, you have been in my prayers although I was very triggery at the beginning of this thread. I lost my sister in a car accident where she lost her hand. Although she died on the scene there were too many similarities for me to be able to post at first.

You are so strong, so wise, so kind. May you continue to feel His hand upon you and our love poured out.

Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.

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BorrowTrouble ( member #2435) posted at 5:53 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Uni,

I just saw this. I am so sorry for your loss.

BT

D-day 7/29/04.

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capri ( member #14940) posted at 6:17 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

(((US)))

I am so sorry. My condolences and prayers are with you and your family.

Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

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usedup ( member #11701) posted at 4:01 PM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

(((Uni))), had to post these lyrics..you are the wise hand in this song. Your faith and love are amazing.

Held-Natalie Grant

Two months is too little

They let him go

They had no sudden healing

To think that providence

Would take a child from his mother

While she prays, is appalling

Who told us we'd be rescued

What has changed and

Why should we be saved from nightmares

Were asking why this happens to us

Who have died to live, it's unfair

This is what it means to be held

How it feels, when the sacred is torn from your life

And you survive

This is what it is to be loved and to know

That the promise was that when everything fell

We'd be held

This hand is bitterness

We want to taste it and

Let the hatred numb our sorrows

The wise hand opens slowly

To lilies of the valley and tomorrow

This is what it means to be held

How it feels, when the sacred is torn from your life

And you survive

This is what it is to be loved and to know

That the promise was that when everything fell

We'd be held

If hope if born of suffering

If this is only the beginning

Can we not wait, for one hour

Watching for our savior

This is what it means to be held

How it feels, when the sacred is torn from your life

And you survive

This is what it is to be loved and to know

That the promise was that when everything fell

We'd be held

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Heartless Bytchh ( member #12347) posted at 11:32 PM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Uni, I haven't been able to get online so I wasn't able to post here.

I don't know if you've been in here lately or not. If you read this, just know that you can call me ANYTIME day or night.

I'm here for you if you need me. You've got my ph #. You know I don't sleep worth a damn at night since I lost Niki.

So I'm probably up if you find yourself having a bad night at 3 am.

I love you and I'm so sorry for you. I wish I could take some of your pain away and reach through this puny little screen and give you a big hug. Please let me know what I can do for you.

Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit

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unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 12:09 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2010

Today is the graveside service, that will be incredibly hard...

11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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kdny ( member #760) posted at 12:12 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2010

((((uni and family))))

Prayers and strength headed to you now.

Whether we remain ash or become phoenix is up to us.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Sometimes the fine line between a nervous breakdown and knowing things will be okay is a pair of furry pants~unfound

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aLadypilot ( member #1822) posted at 12:13 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2010

My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.

Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

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iwantamiracle ( member #22812) posted at 1:10 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2010

(((((uni)))))

My life is finally my own!!
I am happy and I am at peace!

I survived the worst pain I have ever known!!

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JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 12:30 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010

(((uni)))

Thinking of you today and sending strength and love,

-JD

Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

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letting_go ( member #13774) posted at 12:57 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010

Oh (((Uni)))) I am just seeing this thread for the first time.

I am so sorry. Sending prayers.

"To change and to improve are two different things."
Anonymous. German proverb.

"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." Frederick Douglass (1818-1895)

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sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010

((Uni and family))

Time to be my own bff.

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Altered Now ( member #15274) posted at 5:01 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010

I thought that today was going to be the service and came 'on board' to send support.

I see that the service was yesterday. Know that you are still being held in our hearts.

Continued prayers for you and yours.

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unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 11:56 PM on Friday, October 1st, 2010

Today it is the first month anny of my D leaving us, & I just wanted to let you guys know how bittersweet & comforting it is to re-read all the messages left for us. Thank you so much for them!

11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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UnexpectedSong ( member #21761) posted at 12:32 AM on Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

There are no words... There will never be proper words... I wish you peace.

WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker

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moonchild53 ( member #26620) posted at 12:42 AM on Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

I'm so sorry! I don't know what else to say! I was just reading this and my heart is breaking! Just know we're all here for you!

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travels ( member #20334) posted at 12:46 AM on Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

May god continue to help you through this time.

((((uni & family))))

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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charlotte ( member #3663) posted at 2:11 AM on Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

I'm so sorry. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 2:33 AM on Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

Uni, I think of you and your family often. Still sending all my love. ((((((((((((((Uni)))))))))))))

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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