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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:20 PM on Monday, March 25th, 2013
BW here. I would want to know.
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 3:31 PM on Monday, March 25th, 2013
I told the BW of my AP. She thanked me and said I wasn't the first one...
hurting7897 ( member #34761) posted at 3:38 PM on Monday, March 25th, 2013
BW here and I think you did the right thing as well. I too would want to know. I applaud you for being on here and taking responsiblity for the mess you helped create. I applaud you for the hard work you are doing on yourself and for asking for advice here. You DO care about the hurt you've caused and are trying to make amends. As a BW yeah, I wish my FWH's OW's were like you. None ever apologized--the one he had a PA/EA with actually put a status on her Facebook, "Fuck you and fuck her too." Such venom from the whore who tried to steal MY husband! It is healing to read about a FOW who really gets it.
I wish you happiness in your recovery. I do believe you had a sincere heart in dealing with this. I hope you keep us posted about any communication you receive from the BW.
Hugs to you.
Married 20 years
Me-BS-51
Him-FWH-46 "healing4us2"
2 kids, DD 12 and DS 16
D-day #1 Jan. 30,2012
D-day #2 April 12, 2012
D-day #3 April 15, 2012
June 24, 2012--Decided to R.
January 21, 2013-Forgave him! Life is sweet
May 4, 2015--T
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